Long-ish question but 100% GENUINE. Is my friend flirting with me HELP please!!?

Hi I'm 23 female %26amp; so is my best friend. She got married a year ago, I was her bridesmaid. We've been friends for 11 years, very close but lately I feel like there is something going on - I think she's flirting with me. It started like this...





I like to meet new people so i started to socialise with another female friend more. My best friend got insanely jealous %26amp; upset, said she wasnt happy about it, then apologised saying she loved me. She went on holiday abroad with her husband, text/emailed me frequently saying she missed me so much and loved me. At this point I wasnt sure what was going on so i replied less than usual. When she got back, she KEPT askin me to meet, %26amp; when i genuinly couldnt she said ';i dont think i can go another week without seein u';. So I met her for dinner %26amp; it felt like a date. We were by the window, candlelit %26amp; some of the things she said were really confusing. I was tellin her a holiday story of a creep of asked me and my sister for sister sex. She butted in and said ';how about best friend sex'; hehe. I was startled but giggled it off. Also she asked me what im doing for New Year, so I said i fancy getting a log cabin %26amp; she said ';ohh i shouldve married you';. I saw her looking at my cleavage too. She's got a photo of me %26amp; her as her phone wallpaper. We went shopping after %26amp; in the dressing room she was trying on various tops but had on a black/red see through lace undergarment %26amp; it felt like she was flashin me, she said ';oh my boobs falling out';. To test her, walking along the street i said ';do u ever get weeks where u are really horny';... Im not the sort of person to just come out with something like this. She paused said Why. I said oh just after my periods i get so horny. She grabbed my arm gave me a flirty look said oh really, are u just off them now.. I giggled it off. The latest thing is this; She is a singer and doing some music gigs in hotels over Xmas, she gets free rooms to stay in. She asked do i wanna stay with her ages ago i said yeah sure. The other day she asked me do i wanna come the same night as her family and her husband cos that way she couldnt share a room with me cos of him, or do i wanna come another night. It was really odd, like why state to me shes staying in the room with her husband you know. So i called her bluff and said ill just take a different room will i? %26amp; take along a friend so ive got company. Then she tried to find a reason why the girl i suggested couldnt go (cos her family didnt know her). It didnt make sense. I just want to know am i imagining this or is she flirting with me. I am so scared to ask how, how do i do it? Dont say just ask her please - its soooo hard asking someone that. Thanks in advanceLong-ish question but 100% GENUINE. Is my friend flirting with me HELP please!!?
Yeah, I think your friend has a thing for you and may have for a long time. Things like that are hard to deal with because of how other people treat people who are ';different';. Which is lame.





It seems like you have no desire to try a same sex relationship (plus she's married!) so I guess, acting out on one of her jokes is out of the question. Maybe she would like you to join her and her husband. As much as you don't want to, it may just boil down to you having to gently ask her.





Maybe you could bring up your opinion on same sex marriage and see where the conversation goes from there... kinda like baiting her.





Good luck!Long-ish question but 100% GENUINE. Is my friend flirting with me HELP please!!?
Sounds like she might be flirtin a bit yeah! Is she happy in her marriage? No offence to you but maybe she's just a bit bored?