u need to talk to her in a nice way anyway she is ur friend...friend help,comfort,and understand each other....if u r truly her friend talk to her..
that is not nice flirting every guys.Friend flirting probelm....?
she sounds like my ex ';best friend';, shes not ur friend and she sees u as competition because she's jealous of u for watever reason she's not telling u but probably is telling someone else...
if she's ur true friends she should understand u when u sit her down to tell her how u feel and she should leave the guys that u like alone...
she wasnt tryin to help u get with that guy she wanted to know how much u liked him and she wanted to see who he'll choose. I dunno wat happened to her for her to feel like she need everyone to notice her so that shell feel loved and accepted, do u know what kind of relationship she have w/ her family or parents? I dunno know if this is really the problem i could be or maybe its not but she obviously is missing something in her life because she feels like shes not getting enough attention or she feels ugly and she uses guys to make her feel special and beautiful and sexy, but dont worry about her hating u cuz it sounds like she already does she envies you which is a dangerous thing, she dont care about herself or those guys or u for that matter, she's trying to get attention to build up her ego and self esteem and no one can help her with that other than herself, no one can...she has to see she's beautiful all on her own not u or anyone else can make her believe that... but this has a much deeper issue and she's not capable of being friends right now or at least it doesnt seem like she is so if u dont wanna leave her alone at least take a break from her or something tell her how u feel dont worry if she wont like it cuz she dont worry if u dont like her flirting with guys that u like she dont worry if shes hurting ur feelings she dont worry about u
but thats ur relationship with her so i dunno how her nice side is just talk to her the best u can
i mean the best thing you can do is sit her down and talk to her about it. That's what friends are here for and she shouldn't get mad because your not going against her your just letting her know how it looks and that you were upset. Seriously if she gets mad then she'll get over it. A girl knows when she's flirting . Trust me she knows she's a big flirt.
My friend was XACTLY like that! i tld her the truth but first i assured her that i wasnt trying to be mean, i was trying to help her.
Cuz everyone thought my friend was a S-L-U-T o TO THE MAX-O!! so just tell her
re: i seriously dont know what to do anymore...
......you can start by getting some training in self esteem and self worth building so you do not attract or are attracted to these kind of 'friends' (user/abusers). if you liked, loved and respected your self, this kind of 'friend' would not be in your life AT ALL!
Im not convinced she doesnt know shes doing it(flirting), because ive never known anyone to do it that much! And how could a FRIEND do this?
......it doesn't matter what she knows or does. all that matters is what you know and do - especially after you develope some self respect and stay away from downers like your friend!
I just want to know how to make it stop or tell her or something without her hating me...
.......so long as you are afraid of being 'hated' by anyone, you will be a perfect target for Users. NEEDING another's love and approval, even if they are bad, is called Codependency and you may as well get started now while young to over come Codependency and aqcuire Independence from 'users' like your so-called friend. you have no self worth and they hone in on your neediness and use you right up. get some spine and independence through self love and self respect as soon as possible.
good luck,
jim
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