Is my female friend flirting with me? GENUINE question, thanks!?

Hi I'm 23 female %26amp; so is my best friend. She got married a year ago, I was her bridesmaid. We've been friends for 11 years, very close but lately I feel like there is something going on - I think she's flirting with me. It started like this...





I like to meet new people so i started to socialise with another female friend more. My best friend got insanely jealous %26amp; upset, said she wasnt happy about it, then apologised saying she loved me. She went on holiday abroad with her husband, text/emailed me frequently saying she missed me so much and loved me. At this point I wasnt sure what was going on so i replied less than usual. When she got back, she KEPT askin me to meet, %26amp; when i genuinly couldnt she said ';i dont think i can go another week without seein u';. So I met her for dinner %26amp; it felt like a date. We were by the window, candlelit %26amp; some of the things she said were really confusing. I was tellin her a holiday story of a creep of asked me and my sister for sister sex. She butted in and said ';how about best friend sex'; hehe. I was startled but giggled it off. Also she asked me what im doing for New Year, so I said i fancy getting a log cabin %26amp; she said ';ohh i shouldve married you';. I saw her looking at my cleavage too. She's got a photo of me %26amp; her as her phone wallpaper. We went shopping after %26amp; in the dressing room she was trying on various tops but had on a black/red see through lace undergarment %26amp; it felt like she was flashin me, she said ';oh my boobs falling out';. To test her, walking along the street i said ';do u ever get weeks where u are really horny';... Im not the sort of person to just come out with something like this. She paused said Why. I said oh just after my periods i get so horny. She grabbed my arm gave me a flirty look said oh really, are u just off them now.. I giggled it off. The latest thing is this; She is a singer and doing some music gigs in hotels over Xmas, she gets free rooms to stay in. She asked do i wanna stay with her ages ago i said yeah sure. The other day she asked me do i wanna come the same night as her family and her husband cos that way she couldnt share a room with me cos of him, or do i wanna come another night. It was really odd, like why state to me shes staying in the room with her husband you know. So i called her bluff and said ill just take a different room will i? %26amp; take along a friend so ive got company. Then she tried to find a reason why the girl i suggested couldnt go (cos her family didnt know her). It didnt make sense. She seems to constantly go weird on me then pretend its me when I know its not me. Like tonight we were talking and she was trying to make me commit to what im doing for new year, instead of worrying bout her and her husband, so I said i didnt know, and i could tell she was offended cos she was replied less and less. Then i said i had to go, and she quipped in ';oh ive been offered a job in (a city hundreds of miles away)...i just thought what the h... was weird how she was tellin me just then as i was leavin, so instead of sayin wot i think she wanted to hear (ill miss u dont move) i said to her wow that sounds gr8 must b tempting for you, promotion, that city is nice city...etc....then she was like yea im gonna think about it, will speak to you soon bye. Was sooo weird. I just want to know am i imagining this or is she flirting with me. Why is she behaving like this with me?Is my female friend flirting with me? GENUINE question, thanks!?
It sounds like she is coming onto you, and to be honest, if I were you, tell her straight, that you are not interested in her, I have had the same happen to me, and like you, I thought I was going mad, but some of my other friends was commenting on her looks, what she said, and that was enough or me, I put it the best way I could, and told her, over a coffee, ';I'm sorry if this hurts your feelings, but I like you as a close friend, but I don't like it when you come onto me, I like men only';, her face was gutted, but deep down, I knew that I had done the right thing, and funny though, as from that day, I never saw her again. You should say something to her though, hope all goes well.Is my female friend flirting with me? GENUINE question, thanks!?
Yep it's really strange behaviour. It's too many things for your instincts to be totally wrong.


Maybe she was hoping to be as close to her husband as she is to you.


When marriage has proven disappointing... she notices that everything she wants she gets from you... except the sex. Simple solution. Introduce sex and hey presto. Got it all.