Long story - but genuine question. Is my best friend flirting with me? PLEASE answer thanks?

Hi, me and my best female friend are both 23. She got married a year ago, I was her bridesmaid. We've been friends for 11 years, very close but lately I feel like there is something going on - I think she's flirting with me. It started like this...





I like to meet new people so i started to socialise with another female friend more. My best friend got insanely jealous %26amp; upset, said she wasnt happy about it, then apologised saying she loved me. She went on holiday abroad with her husband, text/emailed me frequently saying she missed me so much and loved me. At this point I wasnt sure what was going on so i replied less than usual. When she got back, she KEPT askin me to meet, %26amp; when i genuinly couldnt she said ';i dont think i can go another week without seein u';. So I met her for dinner %26amp; it felt like a date. We were by the window, candlelit %26amp; some of the things she said were really confusing. I was tellin her a holiday story of a creep of asked me and my sister for sister sex. She butted in and said ';how about best friend sex'; hehe. I was startled but giggled it off. Also she asked me what im doing for New Year, so I said i fancy getting a log cabin %26amp; she said ';ohh i shouldve married you';. I saw her looking at my cleavage too. She's got a photo of me %26amp; her as her phone wallpaper. We went shopping after %26amp; in the dressing room she was trying on various tops but had on a black/red see through lace undergarment %26amp; it felt like she was flashin me, she said ';oh my boobs falling out';. To test her, walking along the street i said ';do u ever get weeks where u are really horny';... Im not the sort of person to just come out with something like this. She paused said Why. I said oh just after my periods i get so horny. She grabbed my arm gave me a flirty look said oh really, are u just off them now.. I giggled it off. The latest thing is this; She is a singer and doing some music gigs in hotels over Xmas, she gets free rooms to stay in. She asked do i wanna stay with her ages ago i said yeah sure. The other day she asked me do i wanna come the same night as her family and her husband cos that way she couldnt share a room with me cos of him, or do i wanna come another night. It was really odd, like why state to me shes staying in the room with her husband you know. So i called her bluff and said ill just take a different room will i? %26amp; take along a friend so ive got company. Then she tried to find a reason why the girl i suggested couldnt go (cos her family didnt know her). It didnt make sense. I just want to know am i imagining this or is she flirting with me.


Long story - but genuine question. Is my best friend flirting with me? PLEASE answer thanks?
yes id say she is,Long story - but genuine question. Is my best friend flirting with me? PLEASE answer thanks?
Your friend seems to be a bisexual. I think she's definitely hoping that you'd join her in a threesome. It's not natural for women friends to act like her if they aren't bisexual.
Yes.



it sounds like she is.. if you aren't sure and really want to know.. ask her. after 11 years, you should be able to say.. hey.. you are acting different lately.. more flirty.. what's up? then, listen to the answer, don't put your own words in her mouth! good luck!
she is definitely flirting with you... watch out!
Yes.


Try and talk to her about this and ask her wat she is doing!



yes she is... try keeping distance.. :)
That guy's answer sucks. I'll make mine a little better.





No, you aren't imagining this. Your best friend wants to have sex with you but don't feel bad. Many girls have flings with their best friends. Most of that happens in college but I guess your best friend is realising how much better you are at understanding her, than her husband. I would confront her on the matter and ask her what's going on. After all, if you are as good as friends as you make it seem, she won't care that you have been suspecting this. If she really does want you in that way ask yourself this question, ';Am I open-minded?';









It sure sounds like shes flirting with you - but by testing her in the way you are - its almost as if you're encouraging her unknowingly!! If I were you Id ask her straight out - tell her that you feel shes being a bit more than friendly and is she bisexual


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Everyones jumping to conclusions here, we have your side of the story and if we heard hers we might decide something different.





Let's look at this from a slightly different angle.





She's been married a year and that changes people, sometimes they feel trapped, sometimes they feel lonely, sometimes they crave the times when they were out with friends, single, free, having fun and none of this living with a man! lol





Your her closest friend and so your the person she trusts the most, because of this she can say things that she'd never, ever say to anyone else including her husband.


She can act around you with a confidence that your not going to ridicule or in any way betray her, your obviously a very good friend to her for her to trust you to such an extent.





She could (possibly) have some bisexual feelings and she's using you (her most trusted friend) to simply try them out, to test herself and use this safe enviroment to see if she does or could have a gay tendancies.


She could be questioning her sexuality, she could have been doing this for many years and only now does she feel comfortable enough to see if they are for real.


This does not neccessarily mean you wants to have sex or a relationship with you!





You should ask her very tactfully and gently about how she feels about you, you need to choose the right time and do it in the right way just incase your wrong and she's thinks that YOUR coming onto her.





You could approach is by talking about your friendship, that you've known her for a long time, etc.


You could even test the water on the gay subject saying you saw to girls togther, etc and see what he reaction is, leave open questions so she needs to give you answers.





Even if she is bi/gay and does have feeling for you doesn't mean it has to change your friendship in any way.