Y do my friends flirt wit my bf?

ok so me and kyle have been goin out since December 30, 09*(i know its not a long tim)* anyways my friends know how much i love him. Im only 15 but i love him. my friends always seem 2 flirt with him and it makes me so mad, but i dnt say anything b cuz i dnt want him 2 think im jealous. wat do i do? I really need HELP =[ im afraid to loose him over my friendsY do my friends flirt wit my bf?
you don't 'love' him after a week..god you're such a child!


i'm 16 and i'm so much more mature








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Have you spoken to your friends about it? Perhaps they could be joking around, while your reading too much into it. They may not even be aware of what they're doing, until you bring it up to them. If you don't like it , simply ask them nicely to stop. It makes you uncomfortable, but they also may get a little offended that you would think they'd do something like that. You won't know until you talk to them, but keep in mind you might have had the wrong impression. If they're true friends worth having , you should be more concerned with keeping them. Boyfriends rarely out stay friends. If something happens where your boyfriend and you have a fight or break up, who will you have for support ?
any friend that would flirt w/ your guy isn't your friend. so lose them. fast. or you're going to find out one day that they're trying to sleep with one of your dude's. real friends don't do that sweetie - and it's okay to say something - if you keep it casual, you won't come across as a harpy.





next time you and your guy are alone, w/o them - maybe say something to him? like - ';god i don't get it why my friends have to flirt w/ you like that - it's like they're so desperate for attention and jealous of me that they have to throw themselves at you - do me a favor and just ignore it - i think if you even smile at it, it just encourages them to be even more desperate.';





approach it with him, and with your friends - not in a way that YOU are the jealous party - but the truth - that they're jealous of you having a boyfriend and want to ruin it - and who in gods name would want friends like that???
Well, if your friends are flirting with your boyfriend you don't need to say anything to him. If he isn't flirting back it's not his fault. Your friends sound really crappy to me. It happens with everyone from time to time. Usually I'll catch people laughing and giving my husband the sexy eye when they've had too many drinks and the beer goggles allude them into thinking they are hot. I don't worry because I know he is satisfied.





There really isn't a whole lot for you to do unless you want to talk to your friends and tell them to back off. If you aren't willing to tell them how you feel, then you have to make the choice of breaking up with your brand new boyfriend or try to ignore it or get some new friends. Although, I wouldn't ditch your friends over a boyfriend you've had for 3 days.
Hey I'm dating someone named Kyle too and I'm not much younger than you. We have a girl in our group who flirts with EVERYONE'S boyfriends. And it's really annoying. Try to explain to your friends(in a calm way) that it's annoying you. Even if they are mad at first, they'll get over it soon if their your real friends. And also, this is the age where you have to start picking your true friends. It's confusing at first, but with things like this, it will reveal who is your true friend and who is not. Be brave and good luck with your relationship, and I hope I helped! :D
Other girls of your age wont see your relationship with your bf as serious enough for them to stay away. I wouldn't be happy if that happened to me and I'd think my friends were being a bit unfair. You just don't mess with your mate's bf do you? Next time...say something lighthearted like...'hands off girls...he's taken'. This will let him know that you're a bit annoyed by it and he will, hopefully, make sure he doesn't do anything to encourage it. If he does, you need to talk to him about that. Also, you could actually talk to your friends about it and ask them to lay off him 'cos it annoys you a bit. If they say it's only a laugh...you can say...'well, it's not a laugh for me and you wouldn't like it if I did the same if you had a bf'. It's very difficult when you're so young. Don't worry you're so young. If this guy doesn't work out...there will be plenty more. Good luck.
ahahahaa.... 1. you dont love him, even for adults its not possible in that incredibly short time. 2. your friends are probably just being fun. not flirty.. 3. learn to type. please. 4. you clearly are jealous if you are asking this question. 5. an adult relationship would involve communicating over this. 6. they cant ALWAYS flirt. they have not had the time to yet. 7. get over it. 8. PLEASE learn to speak properly. 9. you might scare him away if you're this intense already, cool off! 10. don't have sex yet. just thought i'd drop that in.. wait a month or two at LEAST.





good luck hun! ;) ahaha





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they either fancy him, there trying to piss you off, or they may not think u really like him as much and there are testing you...it sounds more like there just trying to piss aorund with you lol


but if it gets too much you should say something to them politely when he isnt around


like ';guys i know your my friends and all but i dont like it when you act that way with him dont say flirting coz they might get offended say like could you maybe let me and him have some more time alone to ourselves..coz it feels kinda awkward with you guys around no offence or nothing though





good luck :D
That's typical 15 year old girls for you, no offense. Since you have a boyfriend, your friends are naturally drawn to him. If I were you, I wouldn't be too concerned. I mean, you're the one who's got the boyfriend, right? ;]





But if he starts flirting back, try to be gentle about it. Don't freak out on him, just tell him I wish you wouldn't do that. It kind of bugs me.





Hope this helped! :]
If he flirts back its his bad so brake up with him





If he does not then you have slutty friends and they are just hating! it is not worth it to keep them arround because no matter who you date they will do the same! GET NEW FRIENDS!!!





but first see how he reacts... and chill out he might not fell the same about you as you do him just yet. you did JUST start dating...





GOOD LUCK!
Tell them to stop. Don't worry too much. He's with YOU. But like that other person said, they want to know he wants them to. Sounds messed up but it's just because they're insecure about themselves. Ask your bf if he has any friends that you can set ur friends up with.
this is what you do talk to your boy friend about what is bothering you so he knows and also talk to your friends to let them know that bugs you and probably they will stop doing that if you tell them what is bugging you.
Relax, the relationship is too new. Girls always think if a boy or man is ';taken'; then he must be a good person. They are just jealous and want to know that he wants them too.
tell your friends that you noticed them flirting and that you don't want them to anymore because it makes you feel awkward. Thanks! Hope I helped!
if he flirts back just break up with him already. you dont want to go longer in a relationship you dont like. youll just be hurting yourself.
Tell your friends to f*** off and find their own boyfriends to flirt with. Simple as that.
Then they're not good friends tell em to back of ur man some guys thinkits cute when girls are jealous. Depends.
';always'; its not even been a week sheesh calm down.
Cause he's hot, and their jealous.