Wednesday, August 18, 2010

My best friend flirts with my boyfriend!?

Ok so my boyfriend recently got swine flu (not bad don't worry) and he told me through msn. My best friend keeps going on and on how she knew before me and she knows him better. She always flirts with him and I feel like screaming in her face. She used to go out with him a year ago but they are over, now she goes out with his best friend. He says love you all the time to me and he sometimes flirts with her but not deliberately. Should I dump him or not be her best friend, or both?My best friend flirts with my boyfriend!?
Your boyfriend and your friend are probably still getting over the break up they had, that's why they can't accept what they did and may still be confused about it. If you got together with your boyfriend a little after he and your friend broke up, chances are he still has tiny feelings for her, but shows it rarely.





I recommend that you continue what you're doing, but if something drastic happens, then you get involved.My best friend flirts with my boyfriend!?
You should face your friend and tell her that her actions are not appropriate and the consequences will be that your friendship will end.





You should tell your boyfriend that you are sensitive to his comments to her friend especially since they dated before and if that continues then your romantic relationship will end.





You friendship should be based on mutual respect and your romantic relationship should be based on trust and loyalty and respect. If these elements are not present then those relations should end simultaneously.
i would talk to them together and tell them you don't like it to stop.if she is really your friend she will stop .or not.do not trust her she is after you man.and i would not put up with it.if he is flirting back i would not trust him they know what their doing.good luck.i know what i am talking about it happened to me.i would keep an eye on them.really she is after him,but she will lie and tell you she is not.
drop her as a friend slowly. you don't need competition for your boyfriends attention. your boyfriend is being insensitive to you by being flirty towards her. stop inviting her to events and stop returning her calls. don't try to explaing anything to her because she will deny it and say you are being jealous. you know whats going on, thats all that matters.
She can't possibly be your best friend if she flirts with your man. He can't possibly be the one for you if he flirts back. Both of them don't sound like they are worth the frustration and effort.
If they never dated before I wouldn't see the problem...Since they did you need to tell your best friend to not cross that line and back off....or you could just give them a taste of their own medicine and flirt with her man.
chances rae they still like each other.Talk to both of them and see what they say.The rest I cannot decide for you because it is your life.
woowwwww you shoulddd not be her friend no moree she isnt a true bestfriend and i really love him then stay with him ~~!!!!!
tell her you feel and that it bugs you and also tell him and if it doesnt stop, dump them both
your the one who messed up you broke the best friend coed and dated your best friends ex
Shes a *****, dont talk to her.
shes jealousXD
talk to your boyfriend about it. If he wants to flirt with her after to talk to him then his loss
i would talk to both of them bout it
i would try talking to them first

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