My friend flirts with my boyfriend...?

I don't want to be her friend and we hardly ever hang out, but I work with her once a week. I'm so mad at her after she flirted with him a few times and I told my boyfriend about how annoying she is. He said he'll try not to talk to her and he tries to ignore her and stuff so he's cool. But when I face her at work I can't help feeling mad at her. I always try to fake niceness to her though. Should I just continue faking my niceness? It seems like the only option.My friend flirts with my boyfriend...?
at least you got your confidence on your boyfriend that he is yours..you have been given an assurance for it...now .....stop pretending.....stop being nice to her when you don't feel like....she will eventually notice that you're giving her cold shoulder.....and if she really is your friend..she will feel it and confront you eventually....then by that time you can open things up with her. On your boyfriend's part ....follow what he had told you.....as much as possible avoid talking about her....or calling her foul names....keep your cool..your man will stay for a calm, confident woman like you than for whoring, flirting girl....not all men are the same. ok...so cheer up!My friend flirts with my boyfriend...?
why fake niceness? be mad if u want to! about a year ago i had a really ba realationship with my mother, i was really angry at her and a lot of other things too. then i took a very loong break from ever being mad and during that break a lot of ppl got to walk on me..wasn't good. and now i'm back to feeling mad when i want to. now ppl are scared to even upset me which makes my life a lot easier. there are so many bitches in this world and that girl is one of them, so why should u even think about being nice to her?!
Why let it bother you. First of all , if you boyfriend doesn't want anything to do with her there is nothing to worry about. If you feel that insecure about it then tell the person why you feel this way. If not , just blow it off and chalk it up to experience. Nothing like that is worth getting an ulcer over.
I don't consider a person a real friend if they flirt with your partner inappropriately! Friends can playfully kid each other with flirting for laughs - but when that is the case, no one takes it seriously and no one feels threatened! I have ';so-called'; friends, just because I've known then for 30 yrs., who flirt subtlely, or try to show skin (like cleavage by purposely possitioning themselves for my man's viewing pleasure). As long as my man acts appropriately, it tickles me that these females have such a need to be in the spotlight, crave such attention from men, anybody's man, even a friend's man - to me it is pathetic!!!! And funny especially if the man isn't paying them any mind, or even better, puts them in their place! You should say nothing to the female - if it is so bad that it is disrespectful to you, your man should be putting a stop to it since it is aimed at him. My ex-husband was a real looker and sometimes females would be somewhat disrespectful to me trying to flirt with him and trying to make me jealous. I never said anything - the only exception to me confronting the female is if I have an emotion connection with her - a sister, aunt, best friend.etc. Otherwise, only the man can really put a stop to the flirting from a particularly female - if it bothers you and he doesn't put a stop to it, well, your being disrecpected by him also, and he is enjoying the flirting (ego), and/or he doesn't want to end his possibilies because he's interested (i.e. maybe he'd like to string her along so that one day he can go for it - when your mad at each other, or if the opportunity ever presents itself in some way - mmmm!) Finnally, never let her see you sweat!(it will feed her ego-you don't want that-she'll start believing she can have your man-for one night, or take him from you-and that would be a pleasurable feeling for her!!!) So, even if it does bother you, even if it does make you feel insecure or something, pretend that your so confident and secure that her antics don't bother you. Some woman really don't want your man, they just want their attention, or want to feel as though they have the power of grabbing your man's attention away from you (ego). Like one of the 'so-called'; friends I mentioned in the beginning - I know for a fact she can't stand my man, her personality couldn't exist with his, etc, etc, And visa versa. But her personality needs attention from any man around, I know her well, I've seen her in action too many times to count. If we go out and a man is paying more attention to me, she tries her best to grab some of the attention away for me and for herself. She has had really big boobs since age 12 and was always use to getting a lot of attention from men without even trying (I have small perky ones, with big N's and she seems to be dumbfounded when a man chooses me over her) - I think she misses the attention she got at a younger age- she is 46yrs old (everybody knows that DD's are way south now) - she wants the attention she had when she was younger, but the older she gets the harder she has to try to get the attention, so needless to say, she gets flirtier with age, and for all the confidence she displays, I think she is really not so confident inside! And probably jealousy of me with my ';perkys';, and my slim, tight body! And to think I wanted those bigger boobs she had when we were teenagers - I am counting my blessings now!
Don't talk abt anything just work. Ur bf is just urs, so no need to get mad or else she will think she's a threat to your relationship. Just ignore her and talk to her wen need to.
Let's keep this short and sweet there's only one thing you can do..BEAT HER ASSSS!!!





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