Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Friend flirts with bf!! HELP!?

so my friend and her boyfriend and my boyfriendand me are all friends. but she flirts with my boyfriend so much. she grabbed his butt and freaked danced with him. she says really sexual things to him. like asking about his boners. and saying things about his using his lotion in special ways. she even texts him things saying how she misses him and wants him. she also write messages to him. i know its all joking but it makes me really awkward. and before all this my boyfriend said how gorgeous she was which i think just added on yo me feeling even weirder about all this. i know its all joking. my boyfriends great and shes my friend but its all soo weird. she also very judmental and says she wont hang out with anyone that has ugly clothes or make up or is a little over weight.Friend flirts with bf!! HELP!?
This happened to me, and I personally lost 2 of my friends that week. What I did was that when she started to like hug him and ';almost'; kiss him, I slapped her. She went away crying, and he said that she had startet to get feelings for her.





What you really should do is, that you tell him whats on your mind, or that you try to do the sort of same ting to YOUR boyfriend.. Then your friend maybe will understand that thats is your boyfriend, you two are the two together..





Hope this helps. ~Friend flirts with bf!! HELP!?
Start acting to her the way she acts towards your boyfriend. When she asks why you're going all weird and flirting with her, you tell her that you're not being weird - you're just being a normal friend. When she points out you're wrong, you can tell her, ';Well then quit acting like that with my boyfriend!';





Which probably won't help..but it would be kinda satisfying and funny to me.
just give the same treatment to her boy friend !!!!!! or just start acting similarly towards ur bf !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!simple!or is it ?';
Girl, you need to cut her loose before she takes your man. Why is she even joking like this?





Maybe you need to flirt with her boyfriend and see how she likes it...
threesome?
Your friend is not a friend at all...she just want's your man and disrespects you in the process...drop her.





Go with your gutt instinct on this one. You know she doesn't respect you as a friend if she does this...she knows it too. Sounds like she doesn't give a crap about your feelings OR your relationship...typical Ho...WATCH OUT!
well then that ';friend'; doesnt even deserve to have friends. people that are too stuck up about themselves are way too ignorant. and as for your ';friend,'; you need to tell her that it is UNACCEPTABLE for her to be talking to YOUR BOYFRIEND the way that she does. and if she says, ';im just joking.'; or whatever, tell her that it doesnt matter whether shes joking or not because YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. if shes truly your friend (which doesnt sound like it) she'll do so. and if she'd rather flirt with your bf than be your friend, she obviously doesnt deserve you as a friend. you should then tell your bf that you dont feel comfortable with the way that she speaks to him (and vice versa if applicable) and if he says, ';well i cant stop her'; then tell him, ';true, but you can CHOOSE to NOT respond to her when she speaks that way.'; you can always tell him that he can choose to avoid her if he'd rather not ';hurt'; her or make her feel ';embarrassed.'; if your bf is unwilling to do that for you, he's not worth being your bf either.

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