Long-ish question but GENUINE, in need of advice, is my female best friend flirting with me? PLEASE ANSWER?

Hi I'm 23 female %26amp; so is my best friend. She got married a year ago, I was her bridesmaid. We've been friends for 11 years, very close but lately I feel like there is something going on - I think she's flirting with me. It started like this...





I like to meet new people so i started to socialise with another female friend more. My best friend got insanely jealous %26amp; upset, said she wasnt happy about it, then apologised saying she loved me. She went on holiday abroad with her husband, text/emailed me frequently saying she missed me so much and loved me. At this point I wasnt sure what was going on so i replied less than usual. When she got back, she KEPT askin me to meet, %26amp; when i genuinly couldnt she said ';i dont think i can go another week without seein u';. So I met her for dinner %26amp; it felt like a date. We were by the window, candlelit %26amp; some of the things she said were really confusing. I was tellin her a holiday story of a creep of asked me and my sister for sister sex. She butted in and said ';how about best friend sex'; hehe. I was startled but giggled it off. Also she asked me what im doing for New Year, so I said i fancy getting a log cabin %26amp; she said ';ohh i shouldve married you';. I saw her looking at my cleavage too. She's got a photo of me %26amp; her as her phone wallpaper. We went shopping after %26amp; in the dressing room she was trying on various tops but had on a black/red see through lace undergarment %26amp; it felt like she was flashin me, she said ';oh my boobs falling out';. To test her, walking along the street i said ';do u ever get weeks where u are really horny';... Im not the sort of person to just come out with something like this. She paused said Why. I said oh just after my periods i get so horny. She grabbed my arm gave me a flirty look said oh really, are u just off them now.. I giggled it off. The latest thing is this; She is a singer and doing some music gigs in hotels over Xmas, she gets free rooms to stay in. She asked do i wanna stay with her ages ago i said yeah sure. The other day she asked me do i wanna come the same night as her family and her husband cos that way she couldnt share a room with me cos of him, or do i wanna come another night. It was really odd, like why state to me shes staying in the room with her husband you know. So i called her bluff and said ill just take a different room will i? %26amp; take along a friend so ive got company. Then she tried to find a reason why the girl i suggested couldnt go (cos her family didnt know her). It didnt make sense. I just want to know am i imagining this or is she flirting with me. I am so scared to ask how, how do i do it? Dont say just ask her please - its soooo hard asking someone that. Thanks in advanceLong-ish question but GENUINE, in need of advice, is my female best friend flirting with me? PLEASE ANSWER?
FAKE, FAKE, FAKE!!!








You keep asking the same question over and over again, at one point it was YOU fancying her!





This is complete rubbish and your just wasting everyones time.Long-ish question but GENUINE, in need of advice, is my female best friend flirting with me? PLEASE ANSWER?
it sounds like your in a tight spot here...but if you don't ask this is probably just going to keep on happening
its soooooo obvious tht she is r u clueles or naive or something
Having read your question a couple of times, it seems to me that both of you were not prepared for the disruption of your 11 year friendship that occurred when your friend married. Neither of you want to lose what that friendship meant to you so you are, in a way, flirting with each other in order to keep the flame alive. Try to be honest with yourself and with each other. Don't kill the feelings because you may both be glad of such a strong relationship at some time.
wow well that's really weird but maybe shes being overly friendly cos shes worried in case you go off with that other girl again but she doesn't realise that it could maybe drive you away. i have a friend that's a bit flirty but i dint know what to make of her she slept over my friends house once and she said to my friend when she was asleep ';do you wanna do something naughty'; and so my friend was scared so she just pretended she was asleep ha ha. but it may just be her humour ';/ i don't see how she could be attracted to you after shes been married and how long shes known you! :| maybe its a faze and it will pass you but i hope it doesn't come between your friendship ';/
the best way to find out is to be direct; tell her that uve been sensing something different between u, dont specify wot and if she presumes sexual then yes she has been hitting on u.





if she asks u to clarify, just be like 'i dont know, we seem to b spending more time together...' things like that, but again b careful not to indicate too obviously that u think she has sexual feelings for u.





good luck!