My best friend flirts with my husband in front of me.. pls help!?

Hi, I have this girl friend of mine who flirts with my husband in front of me. Infact, it seems my husband also seems to enjoy the attention he recieves from her. Initially i was like .. ok .. but now its getting on to my nerves. Seems like i m an outsider. My husband will find ways to drop in our conversation and she will find opportunities to drop in at my place while he is at home. I have a daughter from this marriage..and m not thinking of divorce. so pls dont tell me to divorce this guy. I havent made obvious to anyone that i m having a problem... pls help ..is there a way out..?? i thought i'll flirt with her husband in front of her so tht she'll get a taste of how it is... but he is not my types... he's a complete loser... yikes... help me girls.. or guys..My best friend flirts with my husband in front of me.. pls help!?
No sweetie she can't be a friend of yours if she is making a habit of this. I myself, I would have already said something to her first. Men are stupid, god gave them two heads but they think with the wrong one.ONE thing quit inviting her over, and if she calls tell her y'all have plains already. I would tell her look I would appreciate for you too quit flirting with my husband, I can't help it you married a looser so go back home. I would also tell her she doesn't know what a true friend is. Then if your husband says something, well what if I did. How would he like it, if a friend of his started hitting on me.My best friend flirts with my husband in front of me.. pls help!?
It may be tough seeing two people close to you flirting and your in the middle... Other than divorcing, you should probably talk to your husband about it, or your best friend and tell them you have a problem about it. Try talking to them in a nice relaxing way, they might think your jealous or something but tell them your not! Also too bad you think your husbands a loser.. just because you have a daughter doesn't mean you have to stay with him. DUMP HIM! Or resolve it.
Honestly, this petty flirting going on with your best friend and your husband seems so, high school. By the way you're writing, you don't even sound mature. Don't sink to her childish ways and flirt with her husband. How about you do the mature thing and talk to your husband, explain your concern of her flirting with him and the fact he sometimes flirts with her. Maturity. Learn how to act mature, perhaps you should have before you got married.
Well have you talked to your husband about this? I wouldn't talk to him in an accusing manner but have the concerned tone. I would ask him if he has been flirting with her and then I would just let him know how you feel about it. He may not even know he is flirting, or it could just be simply that it is harmless flirting. But I do not believe it is right to flirt with your friends spouse, I know I would never do so.
Take the time to get her off to one side and make it plain to her that you dislike the flirting and since she is unwilling to stop, then your going to punch her out or some such thing, that a real friend wouldn't make it a habit of flirting with her friends husband in front of her or behind her back, if you don't fight for your relationship, then your doomed to lose it, so step up and fight for it.
If she's really a friend can't you pull her aside and tell her how you feel?





If she won't stop she's not your friend and I'd drop her--thereby eliminating her access to your husband.





Maybe she's just a natural flirt and is unaware it's a problem. I'd deal with it from the source but I'd be very nice about it---atleast at first.





Good luck.
Seriously we all loved to be teased and tease. Realizing it can go to far and often does. Have you ever thought about what may happen if maybe they have fornicated? And maybe rather than get upset about it, enjoy the fantasy of it all with your husband. I know its hard to take at times but maybe play along with it and start teasing her. It may turn into one wild and crazy time that both of you will very much enjoy. Good luck and do not get so upset about it.
if I was you I'lll smack the little ***** around before kicking her out - how you know they havent ****** already - it's funny that you have all the clues in front of you and you dont wake up and smell the coffee ..





how can you even call that ***** your b/f and just because you think you going to do her to her husband is going to be payback? all you doing is getting on her level and it probably wouldnt matter because she is lusting for your man!
First tell your husband that it is really bothering you. The next time she acts that way to him, he should tell her that she is making him uncomfortable and would like her to stop_______(touching his arm, winking at him, etc) That way she will not be embarrased and cause a scene but she will get the hint. I would really reconsider your friendship with her. Seems like the minute your husband would show interest she wouldnt think twice of sleeping with him. Good luck!
Don't dump your husband. But do dump your friend.


Someone who doesn't have enough respect for you to stop hitting-on your husband, is NOT a true friend. You'll be better off without having this toxic woman in your life.





One thing to think about... If she flirts with him IN FRONT of you; what do you think she's gonna do with him behind your back? You can be sure that it's only gonna be worse.
First of all she not a good friend or wife if she's flirting with your husband.... you should tell her you no longer would like to be friends with her,and tell her you don't want her droping by your house anymore. and if that don't work then maybe you should consider talking to her husband and telling him about the situation, and have him maybe confront her, then she'll take you serious.....
That is so rude! She should not be flirting with your husband. period. A good friend would not do that. Tell them both how you feel about it and tell her to knock it off. She needs to go home and fix the issues in her own marriage. She is not happy at home so she is looking elsewhere but she shouldn't be looking at your house.
Getting even, never works.





You should trust your husband, until he really gives you reason to doubt him. These jealous feelings are not good, if you let them mature.





I like to flirt, even when married, but I never did it to make my wife feel uncomfortable, and I remained faithful and loving to her. She responded by not getting jealous and letting it divide us.





Flirting is just another way of communicating, as long as it is just friendly flirting.
she's jealous of you. you have a man and obviously she doesn't.





don't worry about your hubby. he's a guy...we don't fall for that crap like you ladies. all that flattery crap don't mean crap unless you pull off your clothes and put your money where your mouth is so I wouldn't worry about your man caring 2 cents past her flirts.





you can flirt and talk all day to me, but until you grab a handful and say ';I want some D*$K'; ....it's all talk to me and your just a tease basically. I don't like to be teased
Tell your friend to knock it off. Your old man is just enjoying it partly to piss you off. so have a chat with him and tell him to knock it off too. It isn't cute. If she's coming around while he's home she got other things on her mind, so be serious when you talk to her. Tell her she's looking pretty stupid to others that are noticing,
And you call her your best friend??? Wake up and smell the coffee honey, and yeah I know, your husband is the sweetest thing and he would neevvvvvvvvvvvvver evvvver do anything.Yeah, right.


If I were you I would drop her like a hot potato if you want your marriage.
i would ring her up and tell her that you dont want to be friends with her anymore. End of story. And not to ring her husband either. Because you'll ring her neck.





How can you even want to stay friends with this woman?


Youre so strange!


Knock her off the scene now! And ring up her husband and tell him what shes been doing!!!
She is not a friend. People don't flirt with their friends significant other. You should also talk to your husband. He is not being very respectful of you. Since you want your marriage to work, then you should try marriage counseling. Good luck!
Tell your husband to knock it off with her. You don't seem insecure at all. He's acting wrong and that is NO friend that is coming around to hang with your husband when you are not home. Drop her and make it plain with him-that's off limits.
Sounds like she's not a very good friend to you - she should know better then to flirt with a married man.





I would probably distance myself from her, if not end the friendship completely. Sorry, but I have no time for that crap.
Talk to her and tell her and tell her she is being a bad friend and don't invite her over. Also remind her that he is a father of your child.
OH NO!





You are acting like a fool! There are rules!





You need to let her know that her whorish ways are unacceptable! She cannot be doing thst! You have a daughter! You cannot let that whore mess ur marriage up!





Straighten your husband too! Let him know!
Talk to your friend and tell her that you don't appreciate her flirting with him ... ever. Whether you're there or not. And talk to your husband and tell him to have some respect.
She isn't your friend, stop calling her and inviting her over, she'll get the hint. Don't dumo your husband, dump her, lol. But do talk to him about how it makes you feel.
YELL AT HER!!!!! if she is a true friend it's okay to be a lil pissy, plus it's worth it. Yell at ur husband too. You shouldn't have to put up with that ****.
you're going to have to talk to your husband about this and tell him how you feel





he is probably just enjoying the attention %26amp; has no idea that you are bothered
i think you need to give your 'friend' a good slap in her dome piece! she has no right to flirt with your husband! tell her to cut the crap!
i think you should tell her in a nice way to stop flirting with ur husband cuz then if one day things get to serius then they might hook up together.....


watever you do dont try to hurt ur relationship between ur best friend and u :)
u should talk to her about it, and i mean she is ur friend and will probably understand.....





and also talk to ur husband and tell him how u feel bout that and that he should stop...





i hope that helped :)
Get rid of your best friend and make her an ex friend. Friends don't flirt with friend's husbands. Period. It crosses an unsaid line.
You should speak to your husband and see what he feels/thinks about the situation - If he feels the same you should speak to your friend %26amp; if she continues tell her not to bother coming to visit!!





Good luck! x