Tuesday, August 10, 2010

My husband is a flirt. He pays more attention to my friend than me when we are all togerther what do i do?

I feel overwhelmed with low confidence and jealousy. How do I either fix him or me? Do I get over it or bring it up and fight? Even my family members have told me they are concerned at his flirting with my friend so its not just me being jealous....My husband is a flirt. He pays more attention to my friend than me when we are all togerther what do i do?
You don't have to fix you , you have done nothing wrong....he is the one that is being disrespectful towards you. You need to tell him to stop his bad immature behaviour. What he is doing is very wrong ... I wonder how he would feel if you behaved like this. Don't blame yourself for his rude ,bad , disrespectful , immature , selfish behaviour. Don't get into a fight with him...just state your case firm and clear...then leave it with him...if nothing changes , then it's time to think about your future with this man. If your friend encourages his flirting...you need to drop her as a friend.My husband is a flirt. He pays more attention to my friend than me when we are all togerther what do i do?
I wasted 10 precious years of my life next to a man that would pay more attention to a fly than to me. But I was so blind, so insecure, so stupid, I could not see it until he ended up leaving me for my best friend. The signs were always as clear as daylight, but did I see them? Of course not. If this husband of yours is doing that, means he has no respect nor love for you. Just take off the blind fold for a few minutes and consider all the love he gives you, the attention he pays to you, the times he tells you he loves you, the little things he buys for you to make you happy, the passionate love making he gives you and then take it from there.
i would honestly bring that up to him let him know how you feel, he might not be doing that on purpose but regardless its NOT OK. Or ask him how would you feel if i did the same to you how would he feel. First you must let him know whats bothering you in order to address an issue. But i totally understand that its not ok.
Kick him in the nuts in front of everyone and drop him like a sack of onions! Then when he's on the ground say, ';Shut the F up, b*tch!'; Men are like children...they should be seen and not heard.
Sounds like he's wanting some strange!
tell him to knock the crap off or leave and go with your friend
Um, stop fighting.


Probably has something do with him his compulsion to seek a new mate.





Fix your marriage, something is amiss there.


Tell him things aren't great right now and him flirting with your friend is making you really jealous.


Stop hanging out with them for a while and focus on just you two.

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