How do I politely reject a lesbian friend's advances?

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I have a friend who is a lesbian, and she is well known for flirting with friends. She recently started flirting with me, but she knows I already have a girlfriend. We are good friends, so I don't want to hurt her, but how can I get her to stop flirting??





BTW, I am very shy, and get embarrassed easily, which is why I have trouble just telling her to stop outright...How do I politely reject a lesbian friend's advances?
politely tell her you're not interested because you have a girlfriend.. she won't stop unless you say something, so you have to get over your shyness.How do I politely reject a lesbian friend's advances?
';im not interested';
You have to tell her to stop. Yes, I know you guys are good friends. But how is she going to know it makes you uncomfortable if nothing is said? In any case, just say it firmly enough not to hurt her feelings.
You have to just tell her to stop, there is no other way.


If you are really shy you can just kinda give her the hint, like always talk about how wonderful your girlfriend is and how much you love spending time with her...


Or you could do that anyways.


:)
Just be straight with her...I mean honest. If she's your friend she will understand and it won't hurt her feelings. She sounds a bit on the flighty side.