Friday, August 20, 2010

What is your definition of a flirt?

I know someone probably asked this before but what's your definition of a flirt. My friends make me feel like a ho because theyre always saying how i flirt with other guys when i have a boyfriend.





One example was when I told them I was fighting with this boy in a room. Just because we were by ourselves play fighting my friends twisted it around and was like oh wat kind of fighting like wrestling because he ended up on the floor and anytime I pass him i have to hit him or sum ****.What is your definition of a flirt?
Oh girl!!! Don't listen to your friends!!! they dont know anything


FLIRT YOUR HEART OUT!!!


Flirting is... touching, smiling, giggling, blowing kisses, tiving attention, changing around *him*... etc...What is your definition of a flirt?
You kind of know when you're flirting when the people around you can feel the sexual tension between the two. Like... the constant smiling or touching or laughing together. I flirt sometimes without realizing, but I'm no ho. I love my boyfriend and he's the only one I flirt with and MORE. I never cheat (start kissing, let them touch me on my ';private'; areas, cuddle with them, etc). My boy's the only one who can do that to me. I know I'm faithful, but I'm a girl, and I can't help but be playful sometimes :]
it's not your fault you're an easygoing person, you're cool. You're just being yourself so don't worry about what others think. flirting is only when your boyfriend doesn't appreciate what you're doing. For example people consider kissing on the cheek and hugging a guy as a hello, flirting because you have a boyfriend. In the case of wrestling with the guys, if you did that before and are just having fun, then there shouldn't be a problem.
I think if you flirt with someone you don't really like. I think you are being a flirt, but I could be wrong


-Livvy
im a flirt. :(

Okay so my best friend is a big flirt.. and?

I was hanging out with the guy I'm in love with and my best friend was there too. It was the first time I'd seen him in a month and a half and it was the last time I will ever get to see him because he is going to a different high school, and that night was the night I was gonna tell him how I felt. We could only hang out with him for 10 minutes because it was getting late. I kept trying to talk to him and flirt and everything, but my best friend was flirting with him the entire time, and she knew how I felt about him and how excited I was to see him and she knew that I was gonna tell him how I felt tonight, but she kept flirting even when I told her to be quiet to I could talk to him. And she has her own boyfriend anyway! (he wasn't with us at the time) yet she still flirts with the guy I am in love with. What to I do to tell him how I feel and how do I tell my ';best friend'; how she messed it up for me?


%26amp;%26amp; I have liked this guy for a year, and I know he likes me too but I never got the chance to tell him that i feel the same way. And I don't wana do it thru a text message /:Okay so my best friend is a big flirt.. and?
i think your ';best friend'; is not a go0d friend too you cus that is dirty that she knew how you felt and she still did it.:/


you should find a better friend and replace her.:D


and the guy call him and tell him what you feel, or text him if he wants to hang out with you then you tell him.:D


i hope i helped.


go0d luckOkay so my best friend is a big flirt.. and?
okay well, that is pretty messed up of your friend, mabye she was trying to make you jelous, or she dosent want you to tell him how you feel for some reason . Tell your friend not to do that , and ask her why did she flirt with him if she knows you like him. And try to find a time when hes alone , or tell him to meet you some place so you can tell him, how you feel :)


good luck:)
well, dont do it through a text, thats not as cool, or ';romantic';





any way, your friend was flirting with him? are you sure? could she just naturally be a flirty person?





tell HER how you felt that it felt like she was back stabbing you,





and then call your ';significant other'; up, and ask and see if he wants to hangout over the weekend, and go see a movie or something. then while your there afterward, tell him. =D
you spoke to your ';friend';? SLAP THAT WITCH.


and about him, talk to him and tell him that you are sorry for how she acted with him. but you also have to see if he liked it. if he was cool with her flirting with him and seemed to go along with it, then he is not worth it.


anyhow,, talk to him and set that girl straight!
Call him!


or ask him to meet you somewhere for an hour.


And tell your best friend that if she was really your best friend she wouldn't have ruined your chance with this this guy.
Try to hang out with him again and DO NOT take your friend with you.





I also think you need to get a new best friend :D She sounds horrible. More like an enemy.
just call him. nd tell ur friend tht she has a bf nd tht u wanna b wit this guy but she might hav messed it up for u.


just b honest wit him. tell him how u feel.
Ask your friend why she's doing this.





Tell her boyfriend. Flirt with him. That'll piss her off.
Do it in person its the best way





Good Luck %26lt;3
you should murder your friend
One of my best friends is a complete flirt and she flirts with all of the guys i like. Its super annoying but the thing is she's not even aware that she does it. Your friend might be the same and just be a natural flirt. Tell your friend how she acts and specific things she can do to stop it or just don't bring her along next time. Texting is actually fine as an ice breaker. ask if he wants to hang out sometime or go on msn or something and then do it there. best of luck :)
call hiim and ask if you guys can meet somewhere


if he cant then tell him on the phone


first tell him that you wanted to tell him something that night you were with him but you couldnt because you best friend was flirting with him the whole night and you couldnt get a word out..


and you were bummed and couldnt keep it in so thats why you had to tell him over phone...(say the part about the phone if you called him and cant meet up with him)





then tell him how you feel





hope things work out :]
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  • Going out with a friend, to flirt or not to flirt?

    My sister's boyfriend's brother blurted out to my sister that he wanted to get to know me (i had never met him,but seen pics) he apparantly was going on about how my daughter would be treated like a princess (he has seen my daughter many times and likes her ) and he was saying how he has a girlfriend now in a jokey way...problem is i went to meet him at my sisters house and i totally messed it up (i will spare u the details) anyway i was gutted.





    anyway i asked my sister to ask him does he wanna go to the cinema or something, he said yes and we are gunna go and try bingo (dont laff as i thought its different) but he also told my sister how he wanted me as a friend first to see how it goes,and that he wants a female friend in his life.





    i'm confused as previously he said he wanted me now only as a friend.





    What do i do when i go bingo should i flirt? or just treat him as a friend?


    also could you explain why he wants a friend?





    Anyway i know my question is long but please do your best to give me the best advice...Thank you for taking the time out to read this :)Going out with a friend, to flirt or not to flirt?
    get your flirt on..but dont over do it..it might turn him offGoing out with a friend, to flirt or not to flirt?
    hmmm. I would see how you guys get along, see how the vibe is. wait for him to set the tone. idk, maybe he just wants a one nighter ,as guys dont usually want friends that are girls, its rare. just dont stress, play it by ear. or maybe you guys will hit it off. its worth a try, right?
    too bad you didn't give us details of what went on that night we might be able to help you more but maybe he is afraid to ask you because he is afraid of rejection
    It sounds like he'd get to know you better before embarking on a relationship with you (that's very respectful and considerate to both you and your daughter). He does sound interested, but wants to take things slow so no one (you, your daughter or him) get hurt. When you meet up with him, don't try to focus on whether or not you should 'date' him. Have fun. Use the opportunity to get to know him better, like he suggests. You'll either end up with a great friend or possibly the man of your dreams.

    My best friend; total flirt?

    my best friend caitlin always always flirts with every guy she meets the could be from teachers to toddlers if its a human with a package she flirts. But its so its getting obnoixous, i caught her basically cheating on her boyfriend (her boyfriend happens to be my long time best guy friend his names ben) who which i actually have a huge crush on. So its taking all of me not to tell ben, but i dont want to hurt him.





    she was on his lap talking to him outside the school, i swear they were about to make out when i walked over they jumped up. To add even more to that caitlin has stole every single guy that i have liked from me. I will even tell her i like that guy alot, and she sweep him off his feet and go and ';hook up';. Anyways how do i tell her nicely that she is the biggest flirt in the entire world (but because i have already done that) how do i tell her it has to stop that it is not okay, cause she thinks it is. oh and should i tell ben?My best friend; total flirt?
    Explain it exactly as you did on here to Caitlin. Sometimes stating the whole lot in one go is enough to get people to realise what they're doing. I'd put quite a lot of emphasis on her sitting on that guy's lap though, your best guy friend doesn't deserve that. I'm not sure if you should tell him about her and that guy though, because if it ends between them over that and then you tell him that you have a huge crush on him he might think that it wasn't true, or that you did it so that you could be with him instead, or something.





    I'd tell him how you feel about him if I were you, but not about Caitlin and that guy... A little while before you say everything to Caitlin as well so that it doesn't seem like everythings happening too quickly for him if she takes unplanned action (freeing him for you) :)





    Not the best wording ever :/





    Good luck :)My best friend; total flirt?
    Don't tell Ben. He has to be blind if he doesn't realize what she is like. That's his problem. And why are you friends with this idiot girl who is screaming for attention every second ?? go find a new friend !! and dump her.
    Your call.





    I'd tell him.





    Not a nice best friend if she steals all your boyfriends.

    Is my friend flirting with my boyfriend? PLEASE help!!?

    My bf and I are having a great relationship, so it's not like I'm scared that she will take him away...but it sincerely annoys the HECK out of me....





    - She'll call me when I'm hanging out with him, and when I say I have to go, she says, ';I FEEL SO LEFT OUT!'; (was she supposed to be included in the first place? no....)


    - She constantly messages him to say hi, and tells me she wants to see him in person some time


    - She suspiciously tells me that she doesn't think he's the right guy for me, when he's done nothing wrong...


    - She always talks to me about him (I call her, and the first thing she asks is, ';So how were you and him today?';





    Am I just being paranoid? If not, should I tell her about my concerns....? THX, serious answers only pleaseIs my friend flirting with my boyfriend? PLEASE help!!?
    She wants your man and that isn't right. I don't think she's much of a friend and she shouldn't try to put you down because she's jealous of youIs my friend flirting with my boyfriend? PLEASE help!!?
    at least she is calling you and not your bf
    Well your being paranoid for a good reason that sounds pretty bad i would just ask her straight up have you ever liked him or something like that just to see what she says and if she does like him then she is a bad friend so.....you should get rid of her unless shes your bestfriend then just talk it out
    well sorta yes because i use to flirt with my bffs bf and i did these things sometimes except for telling her hes not right for her and the i feel so left out! check and see if he flirts back? maybe they might like each other but sometimes people can be flirty and not even like the person my friends like tht ';really flirty'; so yea and do they both talk alot?does she constantly talk about him every second?does he talk about her?
    ask her, if she sayd yes then tell her she needs to back up, way up....!

















    best of luck!
    shes jealous

    How do i tell my friends he's mine?

    Every time that my friends and my boyfriend are in the same room my friends flirt like crazy with him, even my gay friend makenzie(yes he's a dude). One girl Izzy said that she was going to take him away frome me and the first time i heard this i thought she was kidding but then she said she was dead serious. How do i tell he to back off.How do i tell my friends he's mine?
    I would think they'd be your friends for a reason. I'd be straightforward. Even joking is disrespectful and if they are your friends they should respect your opinion. (They should respect it without having to be told, but they may not think they're doing anything wrong)How do i tell my friends he's mine?
    I would say you should start distrusting in their friendship towards you.

    I think my friend flirts with any guy that might like me? B**** ?

    At school theres a guy we hang round with, Im in an older year than them both and shes known him longer...





    Every time I joke around by saying Oh So-and-so is hot I'd tap that Shed instantly reply U cant so-n-so is mine... shes says it in a joking way but she says it so much it's hardly a joke anymore.





    Anyways, back to this guy...


    Ive recently notice his being really nice to me, I mean his a nice guy but he never bags me out like he does to the other girls... e.g. Fat jokes...





    I think shes picked this up too. Now shes flirting with him like she wants him!


    Shes always the one with the boyfriend, she's never single for long.


    Plus she already has two guys waiting, like, all she has to say is jump and theyll say how high?! - Do you know that saying?





    What can I do? I mean even if this guy does like me I don't want to go out with him, his more like a brother to me... well not a brother I hate my brother. but you know what I mean....





    It's like she must shut me down bout every guy I likeI think my friend flirts with any guy that might like me? B**** ?
    Honey, she's not your friend.


    I've heard about lots of situations like this, and I've witnessed just as many. There are many reasons for why your ';friend'; could be doing this to you. She may be jealous or insecure. Or she may simply like being the one who has everything, while you tag along behind her. Whatever her motives, they don't sound good.


    I would try talking to her. If the situation doesn't improve, I'd advise you to drop her. As for the guy-keep up the friendship.

    Is my friend flirting with me?

    One of my friends can be a little touchy-feely sometimes. I love everything about them, but I'm a person who's protective of their space and who prefers not to touch people too much unless I'm romantically involved with them. For example, whenever we hug, he'll make this happy moaning noise some people make when they haven't seen a person in a long time and hug them, but he makes it often when we hug. Also, when we pull apart, he'll still have his arms around me so that we're still close and talk to me like that, and it makes me uncomfortable. Also he'll find reasons to touch me, like link arms while we're walking but rub my arm a little with his hands and keep linking up when we walk after I drop it, or hold my hands when I'm telling him about a personal problem or if I'm feeling distressed. I've already ask him if he likes me and he's said no, so I figured he may just be an affectionate person, but the prolonged contact makes me really uncomfortable. I've made it clear I don't like him, both by mentioning it and by body language (pulling away when he attempts to hold me close after hugging, dropping his hand and putting space between us). How can I get more space without hurting his feelings or making things awkward?Is my friend flirting with me?
    Sit down and have a full on conversation with him about whats going on.








    He could just be one of those touchy-feely people, or when you pop the question on him, he feels weird and says no.Is my friend flirting with me?
    just tell them that your uncomfortable. say that you dont really like a lot of body contact like that because its too close. and yes he is flirting but just because he flirts doesnt mean he likes you trust me
    maybe he's gay
    Good Story!!
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    Hey!


    Ok so, i really like this guy but he doesn't like me so nothings ever going to happen. My friend flirts with this guy a lot and i think she really likes him too but is too afraid to tell me because she thinks i'll be hurt by it, i also know that he totally loves her. How can i tell her that i am ok if she wants to ask him out?


    also, if i am wrong about her liking him she will get all annoyed with me (i don't know it's just how she is) , how can i ask her politely without her getting annoyed ?





    Thanks soo much for any help !





    :) XHow to tell my friend im cool with ...?
    Maybe just say something casually to her like - ' if you do like ...... im cool if you ask him out/like him' That way your not assuming she likes him just thinking from her behaviour that she might. I guess her getting annoyed with you is just a risk your going to have to take, if you say something.How to tell my friend im cool with ...?
    You should never let a guy come in between a friendship, and you deffintley shouldnt act like your cool with it, because that will hurt even more when something does happen between them. Talk to her, and tell her how you feel, her reaction will prove if she is a true friend or not, if she says she will back of, then she is a true friend, and if she continues to flirt with him, let her go, because obviously your guys friendship isnt as important to her as it is to you.
    Your ';friend'; flirts with the same guy she knows you like and your concerned that she'll be upset if you tell her its okay with you if she asks him out?





    If he ';totally loves her'; he'll ask her out on his own. You don't need to give her your permission.
    shes ur friend!! she wont be annoyed!!


    just say to her randomly.. look... he likes you.. and hes a nice guy.. ask him out..





    that way ur making out its him.. rather than mentioning her!











    EDIT: please answer mine? http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
    Tell the guy that your friend likes him, see if he is intersted, then let nature do its thing and ALSO tell your friend you like some one else, but dont tell her a name..
    say ';dont be annoyed with me but its ok if you wanna ask him out';





    say this with your mouth.

    My boyrfriend's friends flirt with him help?

    My boyfriend has alot of bestfriends 2 of them are girls. he liked one of them before we started dating and the girl had no intrest in him and never flirted with him. shes not pretty not being trying to be mean. And all of a sudden when we start dating she always flirts with him and asks him to go a bunch of places with her he just acts like leave me alone. and She always asks how i am and how we are doing as a couple why is she flirting with him like this its pissing me off big time do other girls do this?My boyrfriend's friends flirt with him help?
    she is obviously a whore in search of attention. But be careful, something similar happened to me and the flirting turned into cheating to being dumped for it. Put your foot down and let your position on this flirting be known. Tell the girl you dont appreciate her flirting with your boyfriend. And you slap your boyfriend and let him know he is wrong for letting his best friends flirt with him, especially in your face!! Thats straight disrespect. Let them know you wont tolerate this flirting. BTW, dont be sassy with the girl, be a lady, affirmative. Know the difference. Hope this helpsMy boyrfriend's friends flirt with him help?
    My best guess is that since he has a g/f she can have fun being with him and flirting and not worry about ever having the responsibility of being his g/f.


    Maybe U should make her your friend so she will get her attention and affection from you instead of trying to get it from ur boyfriend.
    maybe she dosen't like u and is trying to look out for him. Sorry if that was mean. She might be trying to scare you away because she dosen't like you with him. I know she is handling it all wrong if that is the case. I know i would protect my best guy friend. Just talk it over with her- gently.
    i have the same effing problem. this stupid slut


    keeps trying to get down my boyfriends pants.


    what ever you do dont confront him about it.


    i tried it... and my boyfriend just yelled at me


    saying their just friends and she doesnt do that.


    and im about to take this trashy ***** and rip her


    face off and sh!t down her throat. but guys will never


    admit to girls hitting on them. guys suck =[


    but i think shes just jealous like this girl im talking about


    is.
    same problem over here!


    she liked the attention when he liked her.


    and she doesn't like you probably because you're way prettier than her.


    and she wants to make you mad.


    i hate it!!!!!!!


    haha, totally feel your pain.


    girls do that because some are stupid.


    i would never do that.


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    but that's the kind of slutty girls some are.


    they want attention.


    ah, felt good to vent.


    thanks
    She's an attention whore. Tell your boyfriend it bothers you and have him talk to her. You have every right to feel strange about it.
    jealousy?


    yea tons do

    My friend keeps flirting with a guy a really like. What should I do?

    There's this really sweet guy at school who kinda seems on and off about liking me back. I can understand his hesitation since my brother almost ran over him as a joke ( no one got hurt) but my friend keeps flirting with him even though she doesn't like him and knows how much I like him. How do I tell her to lay off?My friend keeps flirting with a guy a really like. What should I do?
    first off these type of situations never end good





    u need to reevaluate ur friendship wuts more important this guy or ur friend


    and if the guy is flirting back wit u and ur friend he is an as.s hole and u shuldnt lose a friend over it


    mayb he isnt into u as much as u are into him dont flip on it move on to the next guy


    and if that is the situatu\ion try not to hold a grudge againt ur friend cus lik i said these situations never end well....Key thing is to not lose ur composureMy friend keeps flirting with a guy a really like. What should I do?
    Very simple- b*tch slap that chick! Or better yet, go ask your crush out! While she's flirting %26amp; being silly, you can NAB him!!! See if he'd like to go out. Tell him you like him. Don't hold back! (THEN go knock the snot out of your *friend*.) Some friend....
    Tell her that you would appreciate it if she would not flirt with him, since she knows you are interested. Tell her that as her friend, you would do the same for her.
    i've got so many friends like that. just like, i don't know.. you obviously have to say something to her.. but i'd kinda hint it to her.

    How do i distract my friend when shes flirting with the guy i like?

    im in junior high and my best friend always flirts with the guy i like and its sooo annonying so my new teqniue is to jump in and distract her when she flirts with him. . .


    i have a phone i can say the distractions someones txtinq me but who and how i need major help!!.How do i distract my friend when shes flirting with the guy i like?
    If she flirts with the guy you like that means she isn't your best friend simple as that. She would respect you if she WAS your best friend and - hands off and not try to prove she can take him away from you - this sounds like competition!How do i distract my friend when shes flirting with the guy i like?
    Why don't you tell you friend how you feel about him and how it makes you feel when she flirts with him.
    what the hell is txtinq?





    And just show him your boobs.
    give him a hj while she flirts
    First of all Are you willing to save the relationship no matter what? You have to weigh and consider things before making the first move


    Do special things that this Girl can't do , so that any of her attempts won't have any effect , try to make sure that your boy friend really likes you so that whatever that girl do won't affect too , try to show her how much he cares and loves you and that will gets on her nerve and stop flirting , overwhelm his life , don't allow any Gaps , so that she won't have any way of method or track to his attention ,


    and finally if he were not like the normal guys who likes to be flirted she won't have any effect on you
    are you sure she your friend because don't cross certain line and that one of them

    Is my best friend flirting w/me?

    We're really close, but he does things that make me wonder:


    -we text all night, everynight + study together everyday


    - he waits for me during breaks, afterclass, and if we're walking anywhere.


    -he always sits next to me or finds someway to include me in whatever he's doing.


    -he's brought pancakes into school for me and he's lent me his Ipod and CDs overnight and his jacket when I get cold.


    -A few months ago I was talking about how holding hands with someone helps when I have a panic attack and he responds with ';let's insite a panic attack'; what did that mean? Did he want to hold my hand?


    -Today we're trying to study and he's being stupid so I said ';Let's get back to work or I'm gonna get all Hermione on your ***'; (meaning I was going to get serious and study) and he says, ';oohh can I be Ron?'; it sounds stupid, but it's obvious that Hermione and Ron get together -


    Classmates are starting to make comments about how we're always together..


    What up with him? does he like me?Is my best friend flirting w/me?
    It sure sounds like it. But the real question you should ask is do you think you like him? It looks like the signs are obvious for this guy though.





    Now, if you aren't attracted to him in that way, don't distance yourself from him. Just say thank you for everything he's done and carry on being his friend, and make it clear that you REALLY REALLY just see him as a best friend. It'll be subtle yet straightforward. Plus it will kinda crush his chance of cornering you and spilling his feelings to you.





    Now, if you Do feel the same way for him, then maybe try flirting back. Don't rush into things. It'll be slow, but it'll let him know that you are interested, just not right that very instant! LOL.





    Another situation is that you aren't attracted to him and suddenly he just blurts out his love for you....yeah, there's going to be an awkward silence, but tell him you are ubber flattered and then let him know that, yeah, you really like having him around. But you cherish your guys friendship so much that you wouldn't want things to get ruined if you took a chance on getting together. It'll tell him that you don't want things to go any further because you really like where you're at.

    How can I stop flirting? I have a boyfriend and everyone keeps telling me I flirt with my eyes.?

    According to my guy friends I flirt with them with my eyes, and I totally don't even notice. They say ';You give us looks that dare us to touch you, looks that make it seem like you want to be wanted, and some guys do, some don't'; I don't even realize I do this, and was wondering how I could stop. Thanks a bunch for your help!How can I stop flirting? I have a boyfriend and everyone keeps telling me I flirt with my eyes.?
    Tell them to get over it...they can handle themselves :P You're not doing anything at all. It's like guys saying that a girl was asking to be mistreated because she wore revealing clothesHow can I stop flirting? I have a boyfriend and everyone keeps telling me I flirt with my eyes.?
    Wear sunglasses. HAHA





    Sorry, that's not funny.
    lol wow


    As long as you don't do anything, don't worry about it.

    In love with my best friend?

    hi. im fourteen. i know your probably thinking this is stupid since im only fourteen but there is this guy named foster. we have been best friends for over two years. for most of those two years he had a huge crush on me. i didnt even give him the time of day. me and him feel like brother and sister. hes always been there for me. everybody says that we act like a couple and they ask me if i like him. i can honestly say im not sure.. i went out with one of his best friends for a little over three months. my bf broke up with me because he thought that my best friend flirted with me too much. when ever i talk to him (my best friend) he always talks about how girls dont like him back. i find myself frustrated when he says those things because i feel that he is too obsessed with liking the girls he does that he doesnt even notice me. he is the type of guy i have always wanted.. the cute nerd thats really sweet and caring. he tells me im pretty but then he always turns it around saying stuff about how him being ';ugly'; he has never had a gf so idk if thats the reason why.





    i had a really random dream that i fell down the stairs and he picked me up and i died in his arms. all my dreams end up with him...In love with my best friend?
    To be honest, I don't really see a problem. Other than the fact that you actually think you're in love at 14. But otherwise, this guy likes you, you like him, you two obviously get along very well, go for it. If you're worried about the potential damage to your friendship, why not instead focus on the potential joy the relatioship could bring? You don't want to regret not taking this chance. I've been there, done that before. Regret's a *****. So go seize the day and tell him flat out that you like him. Chances are, he'll think its the luckiest day of his life.In love with my best friend?
    IMHO, you are the one who is secretly obsessing over him. That, my dear, is nothing to be ashamed of.





    Is he currently seeing anyone now? If not, then this is the perfect time to make a move. This chance rarely comes twice, and it takes a long time to fall in love with your best friend.





    You're fourteen, but your words sound more mature. I believe that you will do the right thing and march up to him and reveal your feelings to him. You know what they say - it's best to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.





    Whatever the outcome may be, take this as one of life's lessons.

    So yea my friend isn't talking to me for some reason?

    i met this girl like 2 months ago..... we hang out a few times and then went on a trip to an island for a night............ first day was good but 2nd day was bad due to my planning and her girl problem...... so i was pretty non talkative that what i do when i am moody.........the next day i call her to hang with me and my friends.... she picked up my call and saying she'll call me after she think about it but apparently she called my friend and told him her decision.......then the next day we all went to play badminton...... i was still in my non talkative mood but i was getting jealous because she was talking so much to this friend..... flirting and giving backrubs....... i kinda showed my jealousy a little bit by talking to her about it in a joking way.......like how come she more interactive with him than with me.....mind you she doesnt speak english well and those 2 speak the same 2nd language......but yea after that day i called her and text her and no reply for awhile now......what did i go wrong? and any solution to heal this up because she leaving in like a few days back to her homeland foreverSo yea my friend isn't talking to me for some reason?
    Hi there,





    Friendships and relationships are underpinned by principles of trust, honesty, loyalty, integrity and respect amongst other criteria in equal measure by each party to that friendship. Of these trust is not a God given right but needs to be earned over a period of time.





    Whilst we may make friends with people for one or more reasons, we have to start with the assumption that their values, ethics and code of morality are pretty much in keeping with our own. After all if you are anti-drugs you鈥檇 hardly want a drug addict as a bosom friend. Similarly we have to take for granted that the principles I鈥檝e mentioned are in place. Just as it takes time to build up trust, so too time will enable you to evaluate whether the principles I鈥檝e mentioned are characteristic of the person.





    A friendship is a two way traffic system with give and take on both sides. Compromise may be called for on occasions.





    You need to loosen up a bit and show more interest in her without dwelling on what makes you moody.





    Practise becoming fascinated by her Ask her about herself, and concentrate when she answer you. Remember what she tells you about herself so you can talk about it later, or on another occasion.





    Great socialisers make other people feel comfortable and interesting. How do they do that? By being really, genuinely interested in other people. If you are talking to someone and you feel boring or inferior, ask why that is. Is it really all your fault?





    Practise using fewer 'personal pronouns' when you talk about things. Sentences beginning with 'I' are not only a turn-off for the listener, they also keep the focus of attention on you, which increases shyness. (Note: Of course, part of friendship is giving away things about yourself, but only when you feel it is appropriate to do so.)








    It's a common misconception that good conversationalists always have amazing stories to tell and a well of jokes to dip into. In fact, what most people want from conversation is dialogue and interaction, not just one-way traffic.





    A good way of creating this flow of dialogue is by asking questions in a specific way. For example, questions like: ';Do you live in London?'; can be answered with a ';Yes'; or ';No'; reply - not very good for nurturing conversation. Whereas: ';Where do you live?'; has scope for a longer, and hopefully more interesting reply. This is an open-ended question.





    As a general rule:





    Questions starting with 'are' or 'do' are closed questions, generating yes or no answers.


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    If you're looking for something a little deeper and more involved then you could try out the probing questions. These start with words like 'how', 'why' and 'in what way'. But make sure you find the person interesting before you do this, as it might mean saying goodbye to an evening talking to others!





    1. Don't talk too long without pausing for a reaction. More than a minute is usually too long. Forty seconds is ideal.





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    The ability to talk well can be cultivated.





    You need to show genuine interest in the person if your conversation is to be successful. Interest can be focused on the subject matter of the conversation or the person. Showing interest in the person is by far the better way as people generally like to talk about themselves.





    A one to one conversation is easier than group conversation. In one to one conversation there are two main aims:





    1. To get to know the other person.


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    Be patient with her particularly if she is returning to he homeland and you wish to maintain contact.So yea my friend isn't talking to me for some reason?
    Don't shun your friends. She is not going to be kind to you now. You should beg her to listen to your apology. Vow never to dis-respect her like that again. It was childish of you.
    unless you have connection with her while she is in her homeland, i would just forget about it since you probably won't ever talk/see/meet her ever again in you life.


    good luck..

    Whats up with my friend... she is acting up?

    ok well ive been friends with this girl for two years and i really really liked her, but she was dating a guy who cheats on her but she still sticks around..i finally told her how i felt, she just didnt say a word..then she stopped talking to me for a year.. later we kinda started to talk again just as friends..i met a new girl name bree and we hit it off, but my friend is really rude to her..and when we all hang out my friend flirts heavily with me, and seems to get jealous when im hanging out with bree...so why is she acting like this???Whats up with my friend... she is acting up?
    Your friend is trying to have it both ways. The fact that she stopped talking to you when you told her how you felt tells me that she's a little selfish and immature.





    Now in the time that you two have gotten back together as friends, she hasn't made any moves to be your girl until you meet this other girl. I don't think she's interested in you, I think she just wants to have you around as leftovers. I wouldn't let her do it to me.





    She's being territorial, but that's how people behave when they think they have an object, not when they respect their friend and are treating them like a person.





    Cut her out of your love life, she's a stinker.





    Hope this helps!Whats up with my friend... she is acting up?
    I'm assuming she may be single now? Sounds to me as if she is jealous of your girlfriend. I wouldn't tolerate her behavior with your girlfriend. If she was your friend she would have respect for you and be nice to your gf whether she liked her or not for you. If you really like this girl Bree stay with her. Your friend had her chance. Odds are you maybe down the road if your single again you to could get together. Being mean to people only makes a person ugly no matter how beautiful they may be. I'd tell her to knock that atitude off with your gf. Much luck!
    She's probably covetous. Jealous of Bree, perhaps. It's rather obvious, if she gets mad about you being with Bree.

    Help advice!!!!! Would you want to know if your friend wasn't a friend?

    Here's the deal. My husband has a friend who he pretty much uses for whatever he can get. the friend doesn't know that most times my husband has helped him it was because of me telling him to or offering to do it myself. He is also jealous of this freind and acts all competetive when we are in the room together. The friend flirts with me alot. My husband doesn't let me talk with this friend without him there. Now we are getting divorced and I feel I can talk to whoever I want. Should I tell this friend that he has been used for several years? That who he thought was his friend wasn't- it was really me all along. I don't know how he might take it because I'm sure my husband has made me out to be the bad person, which is easy to do since he never let me talk. This friend is a nice person and I don't want him to get taken advantage of if I wont be around anymore. Also I like the guy and would like a chance with him. Any advice?Help advice!!!!! Would you want to know if your friend wasn't a friend?
    Let's be real here... the true issue is you want a chance with this guy. My guess is that your true motivation is probably to back at your husband by dating his friend. Which is petty and stupid.





    Really if your husband and this guy are friends, you don't have a chance. Most guys believe ';bros before hoes'; and really what guy wants his friend's sloppy seconds? You need to just move on.Help advice!!!!! Would you want to know if your friend wasn't a friend?
    If I was in your shoes I would act natural and focus on yourself for right now. You are an adult and so is your exes friend. If he can't figure out he is being used then it doesn't mean you should swoop in and tell him. If you meet him accidentally then you could bring it up, but I wouldn't do it in a way were you look like your trying to ruin their friendship, like your a revengeful ex-wife type of thing. Because whatever your husband told him that you didn't hear could back fire onto you. If you like him and he likes you back then, you need to be completely open, but you also need to know yourself too. It sounds like the last relationship you were in was with a controlling sociopath, I ran across one myself. I really think you should find a counselor that can help you bring your spirits up, helping on loving yourself. My biggest mistake is that I didn't do that and I kept trying to find love in someone else and ended up go for the same type of guys. Just know that you'll be alright and surround yourself with activities that make you happy and people that make you feel good. Peace and prayers with you. :)
    I would talk to him.Why not nothing to loose.Although this sort of happend to me latley and the ';friend'; sided with the x?Is this a male thing?I am wondering.The best friend just totally quit talking to me after we were fine with each other.


    Give it a shot.

    Whats up with my friend... she is acting up?

    ok well ive been friends with this girl for two years and i really really liked her, but she was dating a guy who cheats on her but she still sticks around..i finally told her how i felt, she just didnt say a word..then she stopped talking to me for a year.. later we kinda started to talk again just as friends..i met a new girl name bree and we hit it off, but my friend is really rude to her..and when we all hang out my friend flirts heavily with me, and seems to get jealous when im hanging out with bree...so why is she acting like this???Whats up with my friend... she is acting up?
    Your friend is trying to have it both ways. The fact that she stopped talking to you when you told her how you felt tells me that she's a little selfish and immature.





    Now in the time that you two have gotten back together as friends, she hasn't made any moves to be your girl until you meet this other girl. I don't think she's interested in you, I think she just wants to have you around as leftovers. I wouldn't let her do it to me.





    She's being territorial, but that's how people behave when they think they have an object, not when they respect their friend and are treating them like a person.





    Cut her out of your love life, she's a stinker.





    Hope this helps!Whats up with my friend... she is acting up?
    I'm assuming she may be single now? Sounds to me as if she is jealous of your girlfriend. I wouldn't tolerate her behavior with your girlfriend. If she was your friend she would have respect for you and be nice to your gf whether she liked her or not for you. If you really like this girl Bree stay with her. Your friend had her chance. Odds are you maybe down the road if your single again you to could get together. Being mean to people only makes a person ugly no matter how beautiful they may be. I'd tell her to knock that atitude off with your gf. Much luck!
    She's probably covetous. Jealous of Bree, perhaps. It's rather obvious, if she gets mad about you being with Bree.
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  • Help advice!!!!! Would you want to know if your friend wasn't a friend?

    Here's the deal. My husband has a friend who he pretty much uses for whatever he can get. the friend doesn't know that most times my husband has helped him it was because of me telling him to or offering to do it myself. He is also jealous of this freind and acts all competetive when we are in the room together. The friend flirts with me alot. My husband doesn't let me talk with this friend without him there. Now we are getting divorced and I feel I can talk to whoever I want. Should I tell this friend that he has been used for several years? That who he thought was his friend wasn't- it was really me all along. I don't know how he might take it because I'm sure my husband has made me out to be the bad person, which is easy to do since he never let me talk. This friend is a nice person and I don't want him to get taken advantage of if I wont be around anymore. Also I like the guy and would like a chance with him. Any advice?Help advice!!!!! Would you want to know if your friend wasn't a friend?
    If I was in your shoes I would act natural and focus on yourself for right now. You are an adult and so is your exes friend. If he can't figure out he is being used then it doesn't mean you should swoop in and tell him. If you meet him accidentally then you could bring it up, but I wouldn't do it in a way were you look like your trying to ruin their friendship, like your a revengeful ex-wife type of thing. Because whatever your husband told him that you didn't hear could back fire onto you. If you like him and he likes you back then, you need to be completely open, but you also need to know yourself too. It sounds like the last relationship you were in was with a controlling sociopath, I ran across one myself. I really think you should find a counselor that can help you bring your spirits up, helping on loving yourself. My biggest mistake is that I didn't do that and I kept trying to find love in someone else and ended up go for the same type of guys. Just know that you'll be alright and surround yourself with activities that make you happy and people that make you feel good. Peace and prayers with you. :)Help advice!!!!! Would you want to know if your friend wasn't a friend?
    I would talk to him.Why not nothing to loose.Although this sort of happend to me latley and the ';friend'; sided with the x?Is this a male thing?I am wondering.The best friend just totally quit talking to me after we were fine with each other.


    Give it a shot.
    Let's be real here... the true issue is you want a chance with this guy. My guess is that your true motivation is probably to back at your husband by dating his friend. Which is petty and stupid.





    Really if your husband and this guy are friends, you don't have a chance. Most guys believe ';bros before hoes'; and really what guy wants his friend's sloppy seconds? You need to just move on.

    How do I get him to chose me over her?

    My friend flirts with the guy I like all the time. Last year, I liked a guy that she said was ugly, stupid, and weird. I went to his house one day and she seemed to get really mad. She eventually got him to date her, and I think it is just to make me mad. She is wayy prettier than I am, but I really want this guy to myself, how do I get him to chose me? Is what I am doing wrong in the first place?How do I get him to chose me over her?
    Flirt with him more than she does. And from now on don't tell her who you like. And stop being friends with her if she is just going after guys you like.

    I think my friend is scared of me?

    I can't say this without sounding concieted but I have to, I am as told by guys a very beautiful women, im 19. So my friend flirts with me a lot, and his flirts are different from everyone elses so it's really cute, like in his flirty jokes he makes it seem like things are already going on between us. So hey hes a nice guy and I like him a lot, good looking guy as well (but I dont think he knows!)...and I have approved all his jokes and moves and am trying my hardest to hint him in, including holding my body against his, and kissing him on the cheek (he does the same) but I think hes too scared to ask, hes never had a girlfriend so I think he doesn't have this much experience...how should I get this guy to finally realize? Btw I told his friend why the hell he isnt doing anything and he said yeah I asked him so what up with you and meg why do you get together already and he said just wait a little bit i know what im doing.I think my friend is scared of me?
    I don't think he knows what he's doing. I think he's just letting each day pass in the hope something will happen. My advice to you is to tell him how you feel. According to your description he doesn't have much experience %26amp; unsure of what to do. Just go for it, you only regret the things you don't do. Lifes tooo short..............

    How Should I Get This Boy To Go Out With Me?

    I had a crush


    I told my friend flirting with him!


    I really wanna get revenge on her !


    What shall I do?How Should I Get This Boy To Go Out With Me?
    Revenge is never healthy, unless it was for Hitler.


    You can never ';make'; someone go out with you. It's not Sherk where you can just have them drink a ';fall in love with me'; potion. Be yourself, and let the guy come to you.How Should I Get This Boy To Go Out With Me?
    first off, it's i found my friend flirting with him. if you told her, then there's no reason to be mad. To the first answerer, it's Shrek. Second, Revenge is not healthy, and if you try, she'll just get revenge on you.

    Friend Help Please?

    1) One of my friends flirts with a boy that fancies me and my ex boyfriend when im right there. I dont want to confront her because she'll deny it, i dont know what to do. Please help?





    2) My other friend is SO COMPETITIVE - she stopped talking to me today because i beat her in a maths and art test :| And when i came top in this musical arts thing, she said 'you only came top because you saw me doing it with my group.' - I did a song and she did a dance :| So i dont get it.. how can i sort it without losing her ?





    Your probably thinking i have horrible friends, but i have others that i will lose if i fall out with these two people. Im willing to accept peoples flaws because i can make people annoyed aswell (: but id never go as far as these people, so please help!Friend Help Please?
    It sounds like they are just insecure - both of them , and can't bare to see you doing better than you. They all want to out do you.


    I have a friend like that who always tries to put me down at any opportunity. Like you I don't fall out with her because my other friend would suffer.


    The best thing to do is realise what she is doing and take it as a compliment. Try to ignore it. You are not a nasty person, your other friends have probably noticed too. Rise above it.Friend Help Please?
    1) let her no that its really pissin u off and if she keeps duin it then drop her as*s like a hot pancake!


    2) let her no that u dont want that to mess up ur friend ship and she gud at all those things to
    Talk 2 them without being mean and rude
    talk to them about it without being rude :)





    x

    Why is my guy friend doing this?

    A guy asked if my guy friend and i were dating. He avoided the question. Another guy (who my guy friend hates) asked if my guy friend has seen me naked. He doesn't say anything. Now, the same person thought we were living together and my friend doesn't correct him, but he makes a joke like ';who else would cook and clean?';.





    My friend flirts with me all the time and teases me and makes me feel happy. I think about him all the time, and I'm too scared to make a move because I have no idea how he feels about me. I'm wondering if the reason he's avoiding questions, is because he may like me.





    Is my friend falling for me and just isn't telling me? Why am I always the one who has to clear everything up?Why is my guy friend doing this?
    Yeah, he may be falling for you. Just ask him upfront, you'll never know until you ask.Why is my guy friend doing this?
    b honest with him and just ask him how he feels about you just go for it
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  • My bestfriend is a huge flirt?

    my best friend flirts with EVERY guy even if she not attracted to them or if they have gfs..nothing stops her. and that shouldnt matter to me the only problem is she flirts with my ex. ive asked her if she likes him and she says no and get pissed off. recently shes been telling me that she doesnt talk to him...but she talks to him behind my back and doesnt tell me anything. i know shes lying to me because yeah i admit ive snooped around looking through her phone and myspace. how should i tell her..and how could i trust her again?My bestfriend is a huge flirt?
    My EX-bestfriend was like that too.. After me and my boyfriend ( back then ) broke up.. It was well pretty bad. More like, he flirted with a lot of girls behind my back. But anywho, silly me, I thought my bestfriend would have my back no matter what. Guess what ? she was flirting back at him. I've also asked her and all. Obviously she would go with '; no, of course not ! / no, he's not my type ew ';. That was nearly two years ago. I didn't trust her. As today, she finaly admited she had feelings for him.. But sadly, he was playing her, flirting with other girls while they were about to date. I don't feel sorry for that.. I mean, as a bestfriend she should of had my side.. And now, it all happens to her. As for your question .. Confront her even though how much she denies it. If it continues, well I'm sorry to say.. You have to let it go.


    hope I helped ! Good luck ~

    Worried About My Friend?

    She's 14, she has 4 online bfs that I know of:





    ~One says he's 26, I did a people search. He's 29. She says he loves her, but a friend flirted with him on IM, and he asked the friend to get on cam.





    ~Another in his 20s,I think he's some kind of pervert, cuz I know they've both sent each other pics on email.





    ~Another one, I heard talking to her on the phone. He was messing with her by telling her he only had a month to live. He's like 20. He was laughing at her, and making fun of her, but she still says that he loves her. I think he's messing with her, and other girls, to see how many he can get.





    I'm worried most about a guy that lives in our city. He's 17, and she made out with him a few times. She said she didn't like him, and promised she wouldn't see him, but then told us that she he had met up with him again, and he was just ';someone to make out with.'; Three days ago, she had sex with him, and she doesn't love him. She says she doesn't regret it.Worried About My Friend?
    you have to be really careful with that kind of situation because the way you appoarch her about it can blow up in your face and possibly end your friendship. You have to talk to her in a way that lets her know that you care and to let her know that you are there for her. Try not to tell her what to do, or get too much in her face acting like her mother because then she'll feel traped. Talk to an adult about this, don't give names just ask them what you should say to your friend. adults are very smart, and a lot of them are more then happy to help. I've been in bad situations like that, and i've done the whole cutting thing and the most important thing was that my friends were there for me when i needed. most of all they were very good listeners. good luck with everything.Worried About My Friend?
    ok ,does her = you? And you are all over the place here.


    Can you rethink what you are asking and ask the question again,please...=( sorry..
    well u need to tell her no one loves a cheater! and get her help bc she could end up killing herself,shes to young for all this stuff,shes still a kid she should enjoy it!
    Doesn't she have an boyfriend who's 14, the same age as her? Or maybe, just a guy friend? Someone who can keep her distracted enough? Tell her to make friends and get offline! As soon as possible! She isn't meant to be doing this..at all.
    You are a good friend. And you do have reasons to be worried. I think the most important thing to do is help her get back on her meds.





    Would you be willing to go into therapy with her? So that you can tell her what's on your mind and she can talk to you too hopefully, but in a healthy way with a impartial professional to guide you?





    Otherwise, I'm afraid the more you tell her what bad choices she's making, you will alienate her.





    This is important because you don't want your friend getting any STD's or getting pregnant or hooking up with predators. Ask her if she's practicing safe sex.





    You are in my prayers.
    If you are worried about your friend, then you should confront her. She is on a dangerous path right now. Is she sleeps with one guy she doesn't love and has no regrets, then how do you know she won't do it again? She could get pregnant or get an S.T.D. I'm not saying that she is a s.l.u.t. but I am saying that she could really get hurt. You need to talk to your friend and tell her that you are worried about her. Get the other people who are worried about her and have an intervention. They really do work. Be comforting and don't get angry. The last thing that your friend needs right now is to feel like you are the enemy and you are angry at her. But don't be so soft that you don't get the point across. Express your concerns to her. Let her know how dangerous it is to meet people in person you met online. My prayers are with you and your friend.
    why would she want to date 20 year old guys anyway. ?
    Wow, it seems like you have a lot going on with your friend. How much older are these men? It seems that she's just looking for some male attention, and will take it at any chance. The one man she slept with, well, you can't physically keep her away, but I suggest sitting her down and confronting her. Tell her you are worried for her safety %26amp; mental stability, and you fear that the worst will happen. Explain how you really feel inside, and if she has any heart, she will listen. If anything, she may have to learn her lesson the hard way. Just remind her, no one is always who they claim to be online...
    You need to confide in an adult that is close to you. There are so many perverts out there and on line predators! You would be doing your friend a favor and possibly saving her life if you talk to an adult that can do something to help her.

    Worried About My Friend?

    She's, she has 4 online bfs that I know of:





    ~One says he's 26, I did a people search. He's 29. She says he loves her, but a friend flirted with him on IM, and he asked the friend to get on cam.





    ~Another in his 20s,I think he's some kind of pervert, cuz I know they've both sent each other pics on email.





    ~Another one, I heard talking to her on the phone. He was messing with her by telling her he only had a month to live. He's like 20. He was laughing at her, and making fun of her, but she still says that he loves her. I think he's messing with her, and other girls, to see how many he can get.





    I'm worried most about a guy that lives in our city. He's 17, and she made out with him a few times. She said she didn't like him, and promised she wouldn't see him, but then told us that she he had met up with him again, and he was just ';someone to make out with.'; Three days ago, she had sex with him, and she doesn't love him. She says she doesn't regret it.Worried About My Friend?
    Only suggest, never command or demand, cause control isnt good in a friendship. Explain the dangers, and consequences.Worried About My Friend?
    tell her to stay as far away from them and if they start something bad call the popo!!!

    Starting to have feelings for my girl friend, what can I do?

    I've known her for over 2 years but have never felt that way about her. Just about a month ago I started feeling like this towards her, and I have gotten jealous because my best friend (to make things worse) is always flirting with her. We've both known her for 2 years and both have always thought she was a keeper if something were to happen... but we just JOKED about it, what has gotten into ME and HIM. Today, the 3 of us went out and the whole time he was flirting with her, and she wasn't indifferent, which made me even more jealous. I know if I said something she wouldn't like me back, and even more when she's got my best friend flirting and she seems to like it (I think they actually like each other now...).





    So, what can I do to feel just as I felt for about 2 years??? I don't know why this started, I just want it to stop because it's not going anywhere and it just annoys me when I see my two friends and they seem like they just want to kiss right there, on the spot but won't do it because they're not alone. As of right now, it would kill me if I found out they were together or kissed or something... even if they just went out alone. How can I possibly feel like this now if I felt nothing for her amonth ago... I think the fact that it's my best friend has something to do with it.Starting to have feelings for my girl friend, what can I do?
    Why can't you just be happy for them? They want to flirt with each other; why not? Just because it annoys you doesn't mean they're going to stop, you know. Actually, you're the one who's uncomfortable and for all they know they don't care if you're annoyed or not. If you keep this up and they start to feel you're against it they might throw you off as a friend. Friends prefer supportive friends, not someone who go up against their views.Starting to have feelings for my girl friend, what can I do?
    you may really like her.......or it just could be jealousy?

    I started liking my girl - friend recently... what do I do?

    I'm a guy who has been very good friends with this one girl. I started having feelings towards her about a month ago, and I confirmed this yesterday when we hung out along with my best guy friend (we're both good friends with her) and he was flirting with her like crazy... at one point he got so close to her I thought they were about to make out. I got jealous, and even more so when I noticed she was rather enjoying it and smiling the whole time, like she was into it. They hugged and were just very affectionate, which had NEVER happened.





    Nobody knows I like her, but it just gets worse when I see my best friend flirting with her... he might like her too, who knows, he's made comments about how pretty and what a great girl she is. I don't want to tell either one of them... it will make things weird with my best friend, and I know she wouldn't like me so it's a lose-lose situation. how can I can get rid of this feeling that I didn't have for about two years?I started liking my girl - friend recently... what do I do?
    Either let her know how you feel, let him know how you feel, or just move on because if you don't do one of the first two, nothing will ever get resolved. I started liking my girl - friend recently... what do I do?
    the best way to get rid of the feeling is to get interested in another girl, try to stop thinking about the girl that you like now, and start talking and hanging out with other girls. trust me it will work. I do it every time i like a guy and know i cant be with him.%26lt;3
    dude this is lyk me!!!


    but my bf went out wiv nd nw a year later i am and its going great well kind off....http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>


    butyou should get in there first! dont let him go to her!


    make her no your better than him but in a way where your friend is not upset
    Move on, obviously she isn't worth you. She doesn't see how special you are. Then you can find someone that will go mad over you. :)
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    My best friend flirts with every man in sight, so every time I have a new love interest, she flirts with him. She is very talkative, so whenever she meets the guys I like, she chats them up and I get left out of the conversation. She acts as if they're her best friends, even if they've just met 5 minutes ago. Then they decide that they like her instead of me. I am not an unlikable person. I'm moderately attractive, not unfriendly, and a good listener. But I am quiet and don't like to draw much attention to myself. I am thinking I might just give up on trying to meet guys because they always lose interest in me and go to her. I don't want to change my personality and become a chatterbox just to get male attention; I want guys to accept me for who I am. So how can I get someone who will like me instead of my best friend? Should I just not let her meet my crushes? What should I do?Best friend likes to steal all my boyfriends/crushes. What to do?
    Have you ever heard that expression ';the squeaky wheel gets the oil?'; Well, your friend is the squeaky wheel. You sound like the kind of girl who likes to get to know somebody before you decide to ';let them in'; thats not a bad thing. There ARE guys out ther that appreciate, even prefer that in a girl.Best friend likes to steal all my boyfriends/crushes. What to do?
    find a really discusting guy who has bad manners and habits knowing she is jealous of you and will repeat her nasty routine...





    make her think you really like him and want him etc ant then let her have the jerk ..





    and move on find a new best friend who will treat you right ans respect you, your feelings and those you care about... i.e. won't behave inappropriate with your bf





    Walt
    Get a new best friend, or prepare to be a spinster.
    well, my first thought would be to make new friends. my second thought would be, maybe you should take a break from looking for a guy for a while, and maybe try to fix her up with someone. that way she's taken, you're free, and (hopefully) no excessive flirtation. and who knows, while youre out hunting for a guy friend for your best friend, you might find someone. hope that helps, just don't give up!
    before doing anything too drastic, I would try to have a honest chat with your friend. Tell her, exactly how you feel about her behavior. Perhaps she is not aware of what she is doing. I wouldn't necessarily recommended not introducing her to your crushes at all, maybe you should work on the timing of the introduction.
    I guess you shouldn't worry about a guy who can leave this easily, and go to someone else, not worth keeping him, and have a good talk to your best friend, tell her you don't like her talking and flirting so much to your guy friends, see what happens, also there is no need to change your personality, you'd find someone special one day who would love you for who you are anyway, good luck.
    drop your friend.





    you should've done that a long time ago.





    cuz let's face it, you're never going to confront her about it.
    Tell your friend how you feel. She may not even realize she is overly flirtatious or that you like someone in particular. If she disregards your feelings or continues with her behavior, I would find a new friend.

    What to do about a flirty friend????

    I need help. My best friend flirts with guys all the time and I don't even think she realizes what she is doing. Me and My other friend are so mad at her right now. I have caught her flirting with the guy I like...(and she KNOWS that I like him) and she was also was flirting with my other friend's boyfriend. When we try to talk to her about how she is crossing the line with her flirting.....she acts like she has no idea what we're talking about and she starts to get angry at us? It drives us nuts and we don't know what to do. We want her to stop. Please Help!What to do about a flirty friend????
    well obviously ur friend has different sensibilities regarding society, norms , relationships, etc...





    obviously this is causing a lot of trouble .... try to tell her that if she better behave in an acceptable manner.. if still she does not listen distance urself from her....eother she ll come in line or find friends whose wavelength matches with herWhat to do about a flirty friend????
    be like b*tch thats my man- stay away!!


    or just tell her nicely again that she crossing the line when she flirts with all these guys


    and some ppl think ur acting like a whore


    don't say you think that


    say that other ppl think that
    talk to her and let her reflects of her actions...
    get rid, she aint your friend if shes flirting with your friends bloke , or she might just be jelous?

    How do you flirt with your guy friend?

    i know this question sounds stupid but i don't exactly know how to flirt. especially with a guy friend. he flirts with me like what should i do to flirt back?How do you flirt with your guy friend?
    Piggy back ride.. tease him. mess with his hair sit on his lap lol i dunno what esle

    How would i flirt with my blind friend?

    This may seem like a stupid question but I'm really attracted to my blind friend and i really want to flirt with him but I'm not sure how to because i usually do all my flirting by visual signals.





    How would i let him know I'm interested and how would i flirt?How would i flirt with my blind friend?
    That is not a stupid question, to the contrary is a great one because you are put in a situation that not too many of us have been and not been able to see limits your flirtatious strategy. They say that when one looses a sense, the others are heightened, therefore he will be able to pick up on the other things that you do.





    For example, you could use very light caresses and change your voice to be more sultry and yet sweet. I think he will understand what it is that you are trying to do. I hope things work out between the two of you.





    And maybe you can find some type of website that can educate you on the subject, I think someone in this position would be very flattered that you are taking the time to understand their world. Good luck!!!How would i flirt with my blind friend?
    touch works even better. Find a reason to put something into and take something out of his hand, making sure to have longer contact than necesery... you know how. you can flirt with words too.
    i guess opening your options would be a good idea. You should try using your speech since he's blind.

    Can anyone analize my dream?

    I was at my grandmother's apartment at night. I was sitting on a sofa, watching TV. I couldn't find my brother anywhere so I went looking for him. I was about to enter one of many rooms, and before I pushed the door, my brother came out. Something was wrong though. His face was very pale. It looked like he had some kind of red eyeliner around his eyes (although I knew he would never do that. It looked so natural). And he had long canine teeth.. and I knew he turned into a vampire.





    It was horrifying. It looked as if he wanted to eat every part of me. I asked him if he was okay, but he said he was very.. hungry. I knew he wanted to drink my blood and it was very scary. I just walked away from him, knowing that he would follow me. I saw my dad doing something (I was too busy with running away), and I should’ve called him to run away, but it was too late. I was already in my grandma’s room, locking the door. I met my friend there (I don’t really remember who it was), and my grandma was there also. I told her everything. I told all the details, what he said to me, and I told her that we all needed to run away. My friend agreed with me, but my grandma said the adults were mature enough, so she didn’t come with us. I knew it was wrong, but I just ran away to the back door.





    I realized that the back door was locked tight, and I heard my brother coming this way to drink my blood. In a death situation, I used all my strength to break the door. It finally broke, and my friend and I were desperate to get away from this apartment. We were about to jump out and realized that we were at a very high place. We looked around and found a waterfall, leading into some ways. Noticing there is no other choices, we both slid down the waterfall and kept on swimming. There were pretty lights down the waters and it was like a stairs going down.





    The next thing I realized was that I was in my dad’s car. I was so happy because my brother didn’t kill my dad after all. But right next to me was my brother. I don’t know where he was looking at, but he certainly wasn’t looking at me. In front of my car was my best friend’s car.. and I realized that I was at a weird school. It was neither my school nor hers. I just got out, desperate to be away from the vampire. I just kept on running until I found group of my friend hanging out. I was so relieved that they were all fine. I sat next to one of the people that I knew, talking about my brother’s vampire story. It was then I realized that my friend, too, was a vampire. They all wanted to get me so I started to run away. There seemed like a good hiding place in a playground so I just darted out there. I was so frightened that I don’t remember what happened during hiding in the playground. But the next part is kinda strange.





    I woke up and I was in a very LONG line in a movie theater. I didn’t care what kind of movie I was watching, I just wanted an answer. I found my friend hanging out with her ex boyfriend but I thought ‘I think she knows the way to turn vampires into human form again’ and went straight to her. She was being a little bitchy, and said “Nope. I don’t know any such way,” and kept flirting with other people. “Screw her,” and I kept on searching for people who I thought would know the way to turn vampires into a human form again. Then I found a friend (I don’t really talk with him much after going into middle school).





    He was playing with yoyo.. very concentrated, but I talked with him anyway. I asked the same question I asked my flirting friend, and he said “Yeah. I know the way,” and the answer was disgusting. He answered “you need to give him 10 people’s blood, and he will turn into a human being again.” I was totally screwed. How was I going to get 10 people’s blood? I didn’t wan to a murder and were was no way that I was going to give blood to him. I was confused / desperate. And then I finally woke up.





    I know it’s really long and I’m very sorry about that. But I just can’t get the pictures off my head. Everything was so REAL.. Anyway, thank you so much!Can anyone analize my dream?
    Ignore baron von bitchy over there, well dude (uh dont know if your a boy or girl) anyway I know where yu comin from I have dreams like that constantly where all my friends turn into vampires and come after me, ...sorry almost drifted off. But it sounds like you were just havin a nightmare which is normal, unless you end up havin some deja vu here and there that happened in your dreams then they might be tryin to tell you somethin. hope that helps, and this kinda makes a pretty good story.Can anyone analize my dream?
    no problem and if you have dreams like this again feel free to email me and tell me about them :)

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    yup i have my book right here ok....your brother is in it..ooo that means your in love with him sad..ok moving on..eyeliner ok.....oh no that means you are also a lesbian and you want your brother to be a woman, that sucks...last one your analyzing a dream....ok, oh poop that means you have to much free time. oh well. lol but for real if you analyze a dream it will lead to more anxiety. Its not real it doesn't mean anything you are freaking yourself out.

    My friend flirts with EVERY guy she sees; and the guy i like :(?

    kso theres this girl whos one of my closest friends. but I HATE how she flirts with every single guy ( literally ) none of them like her %26amp; some have girlfriends and its soo embarresing. Okk so anyways i told her i liked this guy and it was obv a HUGE mistake. she keeps on flirting with him and I told him on msn how she always flirts with him and he told me he does'nt like herr a he called her a ghetto blacckk b*Tch. and i told her what he said and she was like oh i dont care then she went up to him and asked him why he said that and kept touching him :@ but he gets so pissed when she touches him and tells her to f*ck off andd his friends bully herr %26amp; i do feel bad for her so i stand up for her.


    but im getting SO sick and tired of her flirting with everyonee!! :@


    Im thinking of embarresing her by screaming


    '; okay can you stop flirting with everyone you stupid wh*ore! ';


    :S


    im just that mad at her ^


    anyways help me plz :(My friend flirts with EVERY guy she sees; and the guy i like :(?
    well if shes a close friend of yours tell her to back off if you really like this guy....My friend flirts with EVERY guy she sees; and the guy i like :(?
    first off she knows you like the guy and your not doing anything about it so basically he is fair game to ANYONE u can't get mad. as for your friend maybe its just her personality she probably don't even like the guys just having fun and who knows maybe she is flirting with the guy you like just to see how much u like him because if you really do like him you would be doing everything in your power to become his girl so she can stop flirt with him
    yeah it sounds as if thats the only way she knows to talk with guys.


    and don't say that to her! jeeze its funny what your closest girl friends will do to each other..haha


    tell her how you feel and if she doesn't stop or care of your feelings then shes not a true friend, right?


    cut her loose. find a new friend.
    Maybe she doesn't know any other way to act around guys?
    Find Jesus.
    Yeah that might work. btw I would never trust her with my bf.
    lol i have the same situation as you !!!


    i just tell her more positively like more like:


    ''why do you flirt with every guy we see? ''


    or i sometimes let her. turns out sometimes she gets hurt herself because once other people hear she's a whore or what ever you call her . they'll back away like my friend got backfired :/

    My friend keeps flirting with the boy I love?

    My friend is very pretty and flirty but she has a boyfriend of over a year so Im not worried, but I really like this boy and she keeps flirting with him. I cant do anything because Im really rubbish at flirting and I cant really tell her not to because its not like he is my boyfriend. He used to like me but I think she has taken him away. I just want to be able to get close to him again. Girls help me how I can get him back please?My friend keeps flirting with the boy I love?
    What i would do is tell the friend that you like him and hope she can be a good friend and help you out. She can give him little hints about talking to you more...stuff like that. she can also turn and tell you that she's interested in him too and wants something more in which case this would work to her advantage because she has him in her grasp. If it gets really ugly then try and flirt with her bf and see how she likes it. As far as the guy you like, ignore him for a while and he will notice that you haven't payed attention to him and he's going to wounder whats going on, simply tell him that you noticed he liked talking to your friend more and you didn't want to get in their way. either way good luck on this one.My friend keeps flirting with the boy I love?
    Well, if you two are friends first of all, let her know exactly how you feel. Tell her that her constant flirting is affecting you and that it could possibly result in you and the guy you want to be with not being together, or getting close or whatever and that you would really appreciate it if she stuck with her boyfriend and let you have a chance. I don't really know how to tell you to get close to him again, but let him know how you feel also. I think it could benefit you more than it could hurt you, so just be honest with the both of them about how you feel.
    I don't think she's YOUR FRIEND... or maybe she doesn't know you like that guy?


    Tell her. If she's really your friend, she will stop flirting with him. If she's a b*tch, she will keep flirting, and then you should kick her away! You don't need such vultures around.
    try being flirty the eye brow thing always works :) you know ;) be ,more suggestive than her





    you are not rubbish at flirting how dare you say that every one can do it !!





    look up flirting tips on the internet that might help ?
    She's your friend so just tell her that you like him and tell her to back off.
    Tell your friend to stop and if she don't kick her ***
    life situasions like this dont normaly work out so let God do his wioll

    I dont want to hurt my friend but shes hurting me?

    i %26lt;3 my best friend's childhood friend. so does my other best friend and another friend. my other best friend doesn't mind, but th friend flirts blatantly and we dont get to talk 2 him that much. it annoys all of us and we dont have as much fun-should we tell her what shes doing? shes been quite depressed atm and i dont want to make it worse. she found out i %26lt;3 him too and it makes me uncomfortable when she talks about it but she thinks shes just being friendly. I said I liked her jumper and that she should wear it the next time we met up out of skl[in our own clothes] but then i realised that wud b with th guy we both %26lt;3. she said ';youre just saying that bcos i look horrible in it and u want me to look really ugly and u to look rely pretty for a certain sum1';. she was smilin bt she didnt take it back wen i sed im nt lyk that. i fink i should tell her that i dont lyk how shes acting towards me but i dont know the kindst way 2 tell her. btw this q is about m8s nt guys tho NICE advice=gdI dont want to hurt my friend but shes hurting me?
    well i think you should pull her over and just tell her how you feel.say that you really lyk this guy and you would really appreciate it if she would give u a chance tooI dont want to hurt my friend but shes hurting me?
    If she wants to act like that toward you, and does'nt care what she says about or around you then maybe you should think twice over this time wether your still best friends, or if you should just go on and finally go your seperate ways. It hurts but ir happens alot!
    I had a hard time trying to decipher your comments but . . .


    Tell her like it is. But tell her while the two of you are alone. Make it face to face, NOT over the phone. That way she can see you are genuine!
    Hay just big about the and know u are right as the old saying goes 2 wrongs don't make a wright.Just smile back at her and kill her with kindness.
    well i think you should find some one else to fall inlovew with your friend ship isnt worth some guy who you may not even like in a few months i know you think your in love but dont let that ruin your friendship it already sounds like shes letting it get between you because shes getting catty with you any ways id say pick some one else to love and let her wallow in this guy its a big ocean out there and im sure there are far beter fish than him good luck
    then tell her that shes hurting u
    huh


    i dont understnad what u r saying
    Okay couldn't understand a lot of what you were trying to say but just be honest and tell her.
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  • My friend likes everyone I like!?

    My somewhat of a friend flirts with everyone my other friends and I like. Some how she will find out we like a guy then start flirting with him. She has done this to me about 4 times. What is a kind of kind way to tell her to stop??My friend likes everyone I like!?
    um yeah a person like that is not even worth your time. I say drop her and find a real friend.





    But if you do want to continue being friends with her, you should be totally honest and tell her that it is a little weird that she likes the same guy as you.





    What if one day you make one of those guys your boyfriend, wouldn't that be awkward because she use to like him?





    just a thought %26lt;3My friend likes everyone I like!?
    i have the same problem


    this girl copies everything i do


    she recently got her hair cut exactly like mine


    dresses like me


    and ALWAYS LIKES THE SAME GUYS AS ME


    unfortunately 4 her i actually know how 2 flirt unlike her


    and im prettier than her





    so b better at flirting than she is


    2 tell her 2 stop just tell her straight 2 the point ';can u stop flirting with every guy i like?';





    that's what i did but i added the word ';trying'; somewhere in that quote





    good luck





    (ik it sux 2 have someone do that 2 u)
    Do what the first person said: Tell her you like some random guy who is at least cute %26amp; when she starts to flirt with him you should see that


    it is only because she knows you like him or thinks you do.





    It's not good to keep a friend like that around she only likes to compete with you to see if she's better then you.





    you don't need a ';friend'; like that.trust me
    tell her u like some fat dude then tell the whole school she was hitting on him and when she says '; oh but she liked him to '; you say '; no we were trying to see if you would really flirt with every guy we say we like.'; then she will be embarrassed and not do it again and probably wont hang out with you. besides people probably think she is a slut so don't worry.
    There is someone in your group who keeps telling her who you guys like, or she is really sneaky. Tell her you like some random outcast, and enjoy the following week.
    just ignore her. Someone is telling her or the ''rumor'' is getting passed on. I'd say that just pretend that shes not bothering you. And then she'll think ''god shes not jealous, whats the point of flirting anyway''


    I hope this helped, if not sry.
    I used to have a friend like that. It was so annoying. It got to the point that I didn't want to tell her who I liked anymore ... and I didn't.
    tell her that its hurting you when she flirts with guys that you like. if she is a true friend she will stop.
    let her find out you like a nerd, an emo guy, and a guy 2 grades younger than you and watch her reputation dwindle.
    Tell her you like some total loser:) and then watch the fun.
    Well probably.that friend of yours wanna be like you..and u gona have 2 tell her why u keep doing this cuz the more u dnt say anything the more wrost she';ll be
    flirty with all her guys and give her the silent treatment
    tell her to back off


    first come first served

    How to get a guy to kiss you?

    my best guy friend flirts with me and cuddles with me all the time. I can't tell if he wants to kiss me or is nervous. what are some tricks to getting him to kiss me?How to get a guy to kiss you?
    to see if he wants to kiss you, look him in the eye, and move your face in really close, if he wants to kiss you, it'll be natural for him, and he'll move in.


    if he's just being a flirt, then he wont react to your close proximityHow to get a guy to kiss you?
    Watch a movie. ';Cuddle'; or whatever your doing. Stare into his face for a little bit, slowly move in. He sounds shy, but if you break the ice for the first kiss you'll be al good.
    Get him to look into your eyes by looking into his eyes.
    stare into his eyes, and just move closer and closer to his face....


    if he doesn't kiss you by this point, just kiss him

    This is totally original but what are some really good tips on how to flirt?

    okay well my friend always compliments on how pretty i am and so i always ask her why guys don't ask me out then and she says it's because i don't talk to them or flirt with guys so what are they best ways to flirt with guys?!?! i just don't get it how one of my friends can flirt once with a guy and he's all over her and the next day she has already been asked out like 4 times and i really want guys to notice me! please help?This is totally original but what are some really good tips on how to flirt?
    guys like it when you approach them first, just say something totally random to catch them off guard. for example on tuesday last week in my psyc100 class my professor talked about a famous psychologist's sex life. then on thursday i sat next to a random cute guy, for 5 minutes no talking then i randomly said ';how much you wanna bet he is gonna talk about corrupt phychologists' sex life again?'; then he laughed and replied and we started talking and i laughed and smiled at his jokes. blah blah blah





    guys appreciate it more if you talk to them first because you already did the hardest part for them and then they can it from if the guy doesn't doesn't respond just ignorer him he is not worth your time. This is totally original but what are some really good tips on how to flirt?
    Look, guys don't read minds. And often we don't have anything to say. Now if you are totally gorgeous and smart, then I feel sorry for you because then guys have no clue how to approach you. If this is the case, then you must be a little more assertive. Give them your number, tell them they are handsome, and ask them to call you. If they can't get that hint, then you should raise the bar a little.
    eye contact!


    randomly yelling hi or bye to some1!


    notes!


    smiling!


    hope it helped


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    be around boys all the time learn how to talk to them about SEX and things u will see that they will be around u!
    just talk to a boy you lie, but dont be picky!!!! or else theyll be picky to you
    look them in the eyes.. smile a lot.. talk to them
    bite your lower lip and givem a naughty look


    push/hit/slap them lightly whne they tease you and say shut up and wink






    there is nothing unique or original about flirting.





    Flirting tells others that you're interested in sex. Do you really want guys to think of you this way?





    Or





    Make some decent friends with the nice guys who'll respect you.

    Friend flirting w/ your crush?

    what would you do if one of your best friends totally ignored you %26amp; began flirting excessively with most of the guys in her grade, including the guy you have a crush on??? suppose you still want to be friends, but how do you tell her that it hurts your feelings when she flirts with the guy that she KNOWS you like a lot???!!!!!!Friend flirting w/ your crush?
    Not much of a friend. Friend flirting w/ your crush?
    WOW!!!! The same exact thing is happening to me right now!!! me n my BFF have a crush on the same guy and we used to be great friends and now we have been fighting a lot but just keep reminding your friend it will have to sink into her/him sometimes..











    also me n her are still friends but I think since we like the same guy it has ruined our friendship a little bit but also I dated the guy and was supposed to go to our school dance with him but instead she held his hand and I was upset but we are working on what to do and I hope I helped!!!
    I'm assuming you both are pretty young; but she already looks like a devious friend to me, ecspecially since she already knows you like him, I say don't call her a friend anymore.
    She is not much of a friend, if she alreay knows and continues to do it. I wouldnt start anything. If you like him why dont you flirt with him? No harm in that.
    happend to me a few months ago. Just talk to her. Or have someone else point out how rude she's being.
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  • How do I tell if my guy friend/crush likes me and what should I do if he does?

    OK, so I'm friends with this guy but I want to be more. I have been told by quite a few people that he likes me, including one of his friends. However, I don't know this friend very well and was just talking to him one day in class. Also, this friend didn't come to me at the request of my friend/crush and my friend has no idea what his friend said to me. Also, my friend flirts with me (and about 50 others) all the time and whenever I see him he usually touches me in some (appropriate) way, i.e. hugging, putting an arm around me etc. I have his phone number and every time I think of calling him and just telling him how I feel/ asking him how he feels I remember that I'll have to see him the next day no matter what the outcome is. Also, I can never tell if he is serious or not so when he asked me to hook up (just kissing) with him I asked if he was serious. His response was, ';I don't know.'; The school year is ending and I probably won't see him over the summer, so I need to act fast.How do I tell if my guy friend/crush likes me and what should I do if he does?
    CALL HIM! Do something together besides ';hook up';. Go see a movie and keep your hand in a place he can hold it. If he likes you he might hold it. Give him a couple movies, and be sure to flirt back. When he said ';i don't know'; it was probably because he was confused. Girls confuse guys, if he was confused like that then there is a chance he likes you.How do I tell if my guy friend/crush likes me and what should I do if he does?
    Well, we have this joke because he hates this musical that I happen to love. It's coming out as a movie, so I jokingly said we should see it. It's not coming out for another month, but we may actually end up going. Thanks for the advice!

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    This is totally original but what are some really good tips on how to flirt?

    okay well my friend always compliments on how pretty i am and so i always ask her why guys don't ask me out then and she says it's because i don't talk to them or flirt with guys so what are they best ways to flirt with guys?!?! i just don't get it how one of my friends can flirt once with a guy and he's all over her and the next day she has already been asked out like 4 times and i really want guys to notice me! please help?This is totally original but what are some really good tips on how to flirt?
    guys like it when you approach them first, just say something totally random to catch them off guard. for example on tuesday last week in my psyc100 class my professor talked about a famous psychologist's sex life. then on thursday i sat next to a random cute guy, for 5 minutes no talking then i randomly said ';how much you wanna bet he is gonna talk about corrupt phychologists' sex life again?'; then he laughed and replied and we started talking and i laughed and smiled at his jokes. blah blah blah





    guys appreciate it more if you talk to them first because you already did the hardest part for them and then they can it from if the guy doesn't doesn't respond just ignorer him he is not worth your time. This is totally original but what are some really good tips on how to flirt?
    Look, guys don't read minds. And often we don't have anything to say. Now if you are totally gorgeous and smart, then I feel sorry for you because then guys have no clue how to approach you. If this is the case, then you must be a little more assertive. Give them your number, tell them they are handsome, and ask them to call you. If they can't get that hint, then you should raise the bar a little.
    eye contact!


    randomly yelling hi or bye to some1!


    notes!


    smiling!


    hope it helped


    mine?


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    be around boys all the time learn how to talk to them about SEX and things u will see that they will be around u!
    just talk to a boy you lie, but dont be picky!!!! or else theyll be picky to you
    look them in the eyes.. smile a lot.. talk to them
    bite your lower lip and givem a naughty look


    push/hit/slap them lightly whne they tease you and say shut up and wink






    there is nothing unique or original about flirting.





    Flirting tells others that you're interested in sex. Do you really want guys to think of you this way?





    Or





    Make some decent friends with the nice guys who'll respect you.