How to tell my friend im cool with ...?

Hey!


Ok so, i really like this guy but he doesn't like me so nothings ever going to happen. My friend flirts with this guy a lot and i think she really likes him too but is too afraid to tell me because she thinks i'll be hurt by it, i also know that he totally loves her. How can i tell her that i am ok if she wants to ask him out?


also, if i am wrong about her liking him she will get all annoyed with me (i don't know it's just how she is) , how can i ask her politely without her getting annoyed ?





Thanks soo much for any help !





:) XHow to tell my friend im cool with ...?
Maybe just say something casually to her like - ' if you do like ...... im cool if you ask him out/like him' That way your not assuming she likes him just thinking from her behaviour that she might. I guess her getting annoyed with you is just a risk your going to have to take, if you say something.How to tell my friend im cool with ...?
You should never let a guy come in between a friendship, and you deffintley shouldnt act like your cool with it, because that will hurt even more when something does happen between them. Talk to her, and tell her how you feel, her reaction will prove if she is a true friend or not, if she says she will back of, then she is a true friend, and if she continues to flirt with him, let her go, because obviously your guys friendship isnt as important to her as it is to you.
Your ';friend'; flirts with the same guy she knows you like and your concerned that she'll be upset if you tell her its okay with you if she asks him out?





If he ';totally loves her'; he'll ask her out on his own. You don't need to give her your permission.
shes ur friend!! she wont be annoyed!!


just say to her randomly.. look... he likes you.. and hes a nice guy.. ask him out..





that way ur making out its him.. rather than mentioning her!











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Tell the guy that your friend likes him, see if he is intersted, then let nature do its thing and ALSO tell your friend you like some one else, but dont tell her a name..
say ';dont be annoyed with me but its ok if you wanna ask him out';





say this with your mouth.

My boyrfriend's friends flirt with him help?

My boyfriend has alot of bestfriends 2 of them are girls. he liked one of them before we started dating and the girl had no intrest in him and never flirted with him. shes not pretty not being trying to be mean. And all of a sudden when we start dating she always flirts with him and asks him to go a bunch of places with her he just acts like leave me alone. and She always asks how i am and how we are doing as a couple why is she flirting with him like this its pissing me off big time do other girls do this?My boyrfriend's friends flirt with him help?
she is obviously a whore in search of attention. But be careful, something similar happened to me and the flirting turned into cheating to being dumped for it. Put your foot down and let your position on this flirting be known. Tell the girl you dont appreciate her flirting with your boyfriend. And you slap your boyfriend and let him know he is wrong for letting his best friends flirt with him, especially in your face!! Thats straight disrespect. Let them know you wont tolerate this flirting. BTW, dont be sassy with the girl, be a lady, affirmative. Know the difference. Hope this helpsMy boyrfriend's friends flirt with him help?
My best guess is that since he has a g/f she can have fun being with him and flirting and not worry about ever having the responsibility of being his g/f.


Maybe U should make her your friend so she will get her attention and affection from you instead of trying to get it from ur boyfriend.
maybe she dosen't like u and is trying to look out for him. Sorry if that was mean. She might be trying to scare you away because she dosen't like you with him. I know she is handling it all wrong if that is the case. I know i would protect my best guy friend. Just talk it over with her- gently.
i have the same effing problem. this stupid slut


keeps trying to get down my boyfriends pants.


what ever you do dont confront him about it.


i tried it... and my boyfriend just yelled at me


saying their just friends and she doesnt do that.


and im about to take this trashy ***** and rip her


face off and sh!t down her throat. but guys will never


admit to girls hitting on them. guys suck =[


but i think shes just jealous like this girl im talking about


is.
same problem over here!


she liked the attention when he liked her.


and she doesn't like you probably because you're way prettier than her.


and she wants to make you mad.


i hate it!!!!!!!


haha, totally feel your pain.


girls do that because some are stupid.


i would never do that.


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but that's the kind of slutty girls some are.


they want attention.


ah, felt good to vent.


thanks
She's an attention whore. Tell your boyfriend it bothers you and have him talk to her. You have every right to feel strange about it.
jealousy?


yea tons do

My friend keeps flirting with a guy a really like. What should I do?

There's this really sweet guy at school who kinda seems on and off about liking me back. I can understand his hesitation since my brother almost ran over him as a joke ( no one got hurt) but my friend keeps flirting with him even though she doesn't like him and knows how much I like him. How do I tell her to lay off?My friend keeps flirting with a guy a really like. What should I do?
first off these type of situations never end good





u need to reevaluate ur friendship wuts more important this guy or ur friend


and if the guy is flirting back wit u and ur friend he is an as.s hole and u shuldnt lose a friend over it


mayb he isnt into u as much as u are into him dont flip on it move on to the next guy


and if that is the situatu\ion try not to hold a grudge againt ur friend cus lik i said these situations never end well....Key thing is to not lose ur composureMy friend keeps flirting with a guy a really like. What should I do?
Very simple- b*tch slap that chick! Or better yet, go ask your crush out! While she's flirting %26amp; being silly, you can NAB him!!! See if he'd like to go out. Tell him you like him. Don't hold back! (THEN go knock the snot out of your *friend*.) Some friend....
Tell her that you would appreciate it if she would not flirt with him, since she knows you are interested. Tell her that as her friend, you would do the same for her.
i've got so many friends like that. just like, i don't know.. you obviously have to say something to her.. but i'd kinda hint it to her.

How do i distract my friend when shes flirting with the guy i like?

im in junior high and my best friend always flirts with the guy i like and its sooo annonying so my new teqniue is to jump in and distract her when she flirts with him. . .


i have a phone i can say the distractions someones txtinq me but who and how i need major help!!.How do i distract my friend when shes flirting with the guy i like?
If she flirts with the guy you like that means she isn't your best friend simple as that. She would respect you if she WAS your best friend and - hands off and not try to prove she can take him away from you - this sounds like competition!How do i distract my friend when shes flirting with the guy i like?
Why don't you tell you friend how you feel about him and how it makes you feel when she flirts with him.
what the hell is txtinq?





And just show him your boobs.
give him a hj while she flirts
First of all Are you willing to save the relationship no matter what? You have to weigh and consider things before making the first move


Do special things that this Girl can't do , so that any of her attempts won't have any effect , try to make sure that your boy friend really likes you so that whatever that girl do won't affect too , try to show her how much he cares and loves you and that will gets on her nerve and stop flirting , overwhelm his life , don't allow any Gaps , so that she won't have any way of method or track to his attention ,


and finally if he were not like the normal guys who likes to be flirted she won't have any effect on you
are you sure she your friend because don't cross certain line and that one of them

Is my best friend flirting w/me?

We're really close, but he does things that make me wonder:


-we text all night, everynight + study together everyday


- he waits for me during breaks, afterclass, and if we're walking anywhere.


-he always sits next to me or finds someway to include me in whatever he's doing.


-he's brought pancakes into school for me and he's lent me his Ipod and CDs overnight and his jacket when I get cold.


-A few months ago I was talking about how holding hands with someone helps when I have a panic attack and he responds with ';let's insite a panic attack'; what did that mean? Did he want to hold my hand?


-Today we're trying to study and he's being stupid so I said ';Let's get back to work or I'm gonna get all Hermione on your ***'; (meaning I was going to get serious and study) and he says, ';oohh can I be Ron?'; it sounds stupid, but it's obvious that Hermione and Ron get together -


Classmates are starting to make comments about how we're always together..


What up with him? does he like me?Is my best friend flirting w/me?
It sure sounds like it. But the real question you should ask is do you think you like him? It looks like the signs are obvious for this guy though.





Now, if you aren't attracted to him in that way, don't distance yourself from him. Just say thank you for everything he's done and carry on being his friend, and make it clear that you REALLY REALLY just see him as a best friend. It'll be subtle yet straightforward. Plus it will kinda crush his chance of cornering you and spilling his feelings to you.





Now, if you Do feel the same way for him, then maybe try flirting back. Don't rush into things. It'll be slow, but it'll let him know that you are interested, just not right that very instant! LOL.





Another situation is that you aren't attracted to him and suddenly he just blurts out his love for you....yeah, there's going to be an awkward silence, but tell him you are ubber flattered and then let him know that, yeah, you really like having him around. But you cherish your guys friendship so much that you wouldn't want things to get ruined if you took a chance on getting together. It'll tell him that you don't want things to go any further because you really like where you're at.

How can I stop flirting? I have a boyfriend and everyone keeps telling me I flirt with my eyes.?

According to my guy friends I flirt with them with my eyes, and I totally don't even notice. They say ';You give us looks that dare us to touch you, looks that make it seem like you want to be wanted, and some guys do, some don't'; I don't even realize I do this, and was wondering how I could stop. Thanks a bunch for your help!How can I stop flirting? I have a boyfriend and everyone keeps telling me I flirt with my eyes.?
Tell them to get over it...they can handle themselves :P You're not doing anything at all. It's like guys saying that a girl was asking to be mistreated because she wore revealing clothesHow can I stop flirting? I have a boyfriend and everyone keeps telling me I flirt with my eyes.?
Wear sunglasses. HAHA





Sorry, that's not funny.
lol wow


As long as you don't do anything, don't worry about it.

In love with my best friend?

hi. im fourteen. i know your probably thinking this is stupid since im only fourteen but there is this guy named foster. we have been best friends for over two years. for most of those two years he had a huge crush on me. i didnt even give him the time of day. me and him feel like brother and sister. hes always been there for me. everybody says that we act like a couple and they ask me if i like him. i can honestly say im not sure.. i went out with one of his best friends for a little over three months. my bf broke up with me because he thought that my best friend flirted with me too much. when ever i talk to him (my best friend) he always talks about how girls dont like him back. i find myself frustrated when he says those things because i feel that he is too obsessed with liking the girls he does that he doesnt even notice me. he is the type of guy i have always wanted.. the cute nerd thats really sweet and caring. he tells me im pretty but then he always turns it around saying stuff about how him being ';ugly'; he has never had a gf so idk if thats the reason why.





i had a really random dream that i fell down the stairs and he picked me up and i died in his arms. all my dreams end up with him...In love with my best friend?
To be honest, I don't really see a problem. Other than the fact that you actually think you're in love at 14. But otherwise, this guy likes you, you like him, you two obviously get along very well, go for it. If you're worried about the potential damage to your friendship, why not instead focus on the potential joy the relatioship could bring? You don't want to regret not taking this chance. I've been there, done that before. Regret's a *****. So go seize the day and tell him flat out that you like him. Chances are, he'll think its the luckiest day of his life.In love with my best friend?
IMHO, you are the one who is secretly obsessing over him. That, my dear, is nothing to be ashamed of.





Is he currently seeing anyone now? If not, then this is the perfect time to make a move. This chance rarely comes twice, and it takes a long time to fall in love with your best friend.





You're fourteen, but your words sound more mature. I believe that you will do the right thing and march up to him and reveal your feelings to him. You know what they say - it's best to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.





Whatever the outcome may be, take this as one of life's lessons.