I know someone probably asked this before but what's your definition of a flirt. My friends make me feel like a ho because theyre always saying how i flirt with other guys when i have a boyfriend.
One example was when I told them I was fighting with this boy in a room. Just because we were by ourselves play fighting my friends twisted it around and was like oh wat kind of fighting like wrestling because he ended up on the floor and anytime I pass him i have to hit him or sum ****.What is your definition of a flirt?
Oh girl!!! Don't listen to your friends!!! they dont know anything
FLIRT YOUR HEART OUT!!!
Flirting is... touching, smiling, giggling, blowing kisses, tiving attention, changing around *him*... etc...What is your definition of a flirt?
You kind of know when you're flirting when the people around you can feel the sexual tension between the two. Like... the constant smiling or touching or laughing together. I flirt sometimes without realizing, but I'm no ho. I love my boyfriend and he's the only one I flirt with and MORE. I never cheat (start kissing, let them touch me on my ';private'; areas, cuddle with them, etc). My boy's the only one who can do that to me. I know I'm faithful, but I'm a girl, and I can't help but be playful sometimes :]
it's not your fault you're an easygoing person, you're cool. You're just being yourself so don't worry about what others think. flirting is only when your boyfriend doesn't appreciate what you're doing. For example people consider kissing on the cheek and hugging a guy as a hello, flirting because you have a boyfriend. In the case of wrestling with the guys, if you did that before and are just having fun, then there shouldn't be a problem.
I think if you flirt with someone you don't really like. I think you are being a flirt, but I could be wrong
-Livvy
im a flirt. :(
Friday, August 20, 2010
Okay so my best friend is a big flirt.. and?
I was hanging out with the guy I'm in love with and my best friend was there too. It was the first time I'd seen him in a month and a half and it was the last time I will ever get to see him because he is going to a different high school, and that night was the night I was gonna tell him how I felt. We could only hang out with him for 10 minutes because it was getting late. I kept trying to talk to him and flirt and everything, but my best friend was flirting with him the entire time, and she knew how I felt about him and how excited I was to see him and she knew that I was gonna tell him how I felt tonight, but she kept flirting even when I told her to be quiet to I could talk to him. And she has her own boyfriend anyway! (he wasn't with us at the time) yet she still flirts with the guy I am in love with. What to I do to tell him how I feel and how do I tell my ';best friend'; how she messed it up for me?
%26amp;%26amp; I have liked this guy for a year, and I know he likes me too but I never got the chance to tell him that i feel the same way. And I don't wana do it thru a text message /:Okay so my best friend is a big flirt.. and?
i think your ';best friend'; is not a go0d friend too you cus that is dirty that she knew how you felt and she still did it.:/
you should find a better friend and replace her.:D
and the guy call him and tell him what you feel, or text him if he wants to hang out with you then you tell him.:D
i hope i helped.
go0d luckOkay so my best friend is a big flirt.. and?
okay well, that is pretty messed up of your friend, mabye she was trying to make you jelous, or she dosent want you to tell him how you feel for some reason . Tell your friend not to do that , and ask her why did she flirt with him if she knows you like him. And try to find a time when hes alone , or tell him to meet you some place so you can tell him, how you feel :)
good luck:)
well, dont do it through a text, thats not as cool, or ';romantic';
any way, your friend was flirting with him? are you sure? could she just naturally be a flirty person?
tell HER how you felt that it felt like she was back stabbing you,
and then call your ';significant other'; up, and ask and see if he wants to hangout over the weekend, and go see a movie or something. then while your there afterward, tell him. =D
you spoke to your ';friend';? SLAP THAT WITCH.
and about him, talk to him and tell him that you are sorry for how she acted with him. but you also have to see if he liked it. if he was cool with her flirting with him and seemed to go along with it, then he is not worth it.
anyhow,, talk to him and set that girl straight!
Call him!
or ask him to meet you somewhere for an hour.
And tell your best friend that if she was really your best friend she wouldn't have ruined your chance with this this guy.
Try to hang out with him again and DO NOT take your friend with you.
I also think you need to get a new best friend :D She sounds horrible. More like an enemy.
just call him. nd tell ur friend tht she has a bf nd tht u wanna b wit this guy but she might hav messed it up for u.
just b honest wit him. tell him how u feel.
Ask your friend why she's doing this.
Tell her boyfriend. Flirt with him. That'll piss her off.
Do it in person its the best way
Good Luck %26lt;3
you should murder your friend
One of my best friends is a complete flirt and she flirts with all of the guys i like. Its super annoying but the thing is she's not even aware that she does it. Your friend might be the same and just be a natural flirt. Tell your friend how she acts and specific things she can do to stop it or just don't bring her along next time. Texting is actually fine as an ice breaker. ask if he wants to hang out sometime or go on msn or something and then do it there. best of luck :)
call hiim and ask if you guys can meet somewhere
if he cant then tell him on the phone
first tell him that you wanted to tell him something that night you were with him but you couldnt because you best friend was flirting with him the whole night and you couldnt get a word out..
and you were bummed and couldnt keep it in so thats why you had to tell him over phone...(say the part about the phone if you called him and cant meet up with him)
then tell him how you feel
hope things work out :]prom hair hair magazine
%26amp;%26amp; I have liked this guy for a year, and I know he likes me too but I never got the chance to tell him that i feel the same way. And I don't wana do it thru a text message /:Okay so my best friend is a big flirt.. and?
i think your ';best friend'; is not a go0d friend too you cus that is dirty that she knew how you felt and she still did it.:/
you should find a better friend and replace her.:D
and the guy call him and tell him what you feel, or text him if he wants to hang out with you then you tell him.:D
i hope i helped.
go0d luckOkay so my best friend is a big flirt.. and?
okay well, that is pretty messed up of your friend, mabye she was trying to make you jelous, or she dosent want you to tell him how you feel for some reason . Tell your friend not to do that , and ask her why did she flirt with him if she knows you like him. And try to find a time when hes alone , or tell him to meet you some place so you can tell him, how you feel :)
good luck:)
well, dont do it through a text, thats not as cool, or ';romantic';
any way, your friend was flirting with him? are you sure? could she just naturally be a flirty person?
tell HER how you felt that it felt like she was back stabbing you,
and then call your ';significant other'; up, and ask and see if he wants to hangout over the weekend, and go see a movie or something. then while your there afterward, tell him. =D
you spoke to your ';friend';? SLAP THAT WITCH.
and about him, talk to him and tell him that you are sorry for how she acted with him. but you also have to see if he liked it. if he was cool with her flirting with him and seemed to go along with it, then he is not worth it.
anyhow,, talk to him and set that girl straight!
Call him!
or ask him to meet you somewhere for an hour.
And tell your best friend that if she was really your best friend she wouldn't have ruined your chance with this this guy.
Try to hang out with him again and DO NOT take your friend with you.
I also think you need to get a new best friend :D She sounds horrible. More like an enemy.
just call him. nd tell ur friend tht she has a bf nd tht u wanna b wit this guy but she might hav messed it up for u.
just b honest wit him. tell him how u feel.
Ask your friend why she's doing this.
Tell her boyfriend. Flirt with him. That'll piss her off.
Do it in person its the best way
Good Luck %26lt;3
you should murder your friend
One of my best friends is a complete flirt and she flirts with all of the guys i like. Its super annoying but the thing is she's not even aware that she does it. Your friend might be the same and just be a natural flirt. Tell your friend how she acts and specific things she can do to stop it or just don't bring her along next time. Texting is actually fine as an ice breaker. ask if he wants to hang out sometime or go on msn or something and then do it there. best of luck :)
call hiim and ask if you guys can meet somewhere
if he cant then tell him on the phone
first tell him that you wanted to tell him something that night you were with him but you couldnt because you best friend was flirting with him the whole night and you couldnt get a word out..
and you were bummed and couldnt keep it in so thats why you had to tell him over phone...(say the part about the phone if you called him and cant meet up with him)
then tell him how you feel
hope things work out :]
Going out with a friend, to flirt or not to flirt?
My sister's boyfriend's brother blurted out to my sister that he wanted to get to know me (i had never met him,but seen pics) he apparantly was going on about how my daughter would be treated like a princess (he has seen my daughter many times and likes her ) and he was saying how he has a girlfriend now in a jokey way...problem is i went to meet him at my sisters house and i totally messed it up (i will spare u the details) anyway i was gutted.
anyway i asked my sister to ask him does he wanna go to the cinema or something, he said yes and we are gunna go and try bingo (dont laff as i thought its different) but he also told my sister how he wanted me as a friend first to see how it goes,and that he wants a female friend in his life.
i'm confused as previously he said he wanted me now only as a friend.
What do i do when i go bingo should i flirt? or just treat him as a friend?
also could you explain why he wants a friend?
Anyway i know my question is long but please do your best to give me the best advice...Thank you for taking the time out to read this :)Going out with a friend, to flirt or not to flirt?
get your flirt on..but dont over do it..it might turn him offGoing out with a friend, to flirt or not to flirt?
hmmm. I would see how you guys get along, see how the vibe is. wait for him to set the tone. idk, maybe he just wants a one nighter ,as guys dont usually want friends that are girls, its rare. just dont stress, play it by ear. or maybe you guys will hit it off. its worth a try, right?
too bad you didn't give us details of what went on that night we might be able to help you more but maybe he is afraid to ask you because he is afraid of rejection
It sounds like he'd get to know you better before embarking on a relationship with you (that's very respectful and considerate to both you and your daughter). He does sound interested, but wants to take things slow so no one (you, your daughter or him) get hurt. When you meet up with him, don't try to focus on whether or not you should 'date' him. Have fun. Use the opportunity to get to know him better, like he suggests. You'll either end up with a great friend or possibly the man of your dreams.
anyway i asked my sister to ask him does he wanna go to the cinema or something, he said yes and we are gunna go and try bingo (dont laff as i thought its different) but he also told my sister how he wanted me as a friend first to see how it goes,and that he wants a female friend in his life.
i'm confused as previously he said he wanted me now only as a friend.
What do i do when i go bingo should i flirt? or just treat him as a friend?
also could you explain why he wants a friend?
Anyway i know my question is long but please do your best to give me the best advice...Thank you for taking the time out to read this :)Going out with a friend, to flirt or not to flirt?
get your flirt on..but dont over do it..it might turn him offGoing out with a friend, to flirt or not to flirt?
hmmm. I would see how you guys get along, see how the vibe is. wait for him to set the tone. idk, maybe he just wants a one nighter ,as guys dont usually want friends that are girls, its rare. just dont stress, play it by ear. or maybe you guys will hit it off. its worth a try, right?
too bad you didn't give us details of what went on that night we might be able to help you more but maybe he is afraid to ask you because he is afraid of rejection
It sounds like he'd get to know you better before embarking on a relationship with you (that's very respectful and considerate to both you and your daughter). He does sound interested, but wants to take things slow so no one (you, your daughter or him) get hurt. When you meet up with him, don't try to focus on whether or not you should 'date' him. Have fun. Use the opportunity to get to know him better, like he suggests. You'll either end up with a great friend or possibly the man of your dreams.
My best friend; total flirt?
my best friend caitlin always always flirts with every guy she meets the could be from teachers to toddlers if its a human with a package she flirts. But its so its getting obnoixous, i caught her basically cheating on her boyfriend (her boyfriend happens to be my long time best guy friend his names ben) who which i actually have a huge crush on. So its taking all of me not to tell ben, but i dont want to hurt him.
she was on his lap talking to him outside the school, i swear they were about to make out when i walked over they jumped up. To add even more to that caitlin has stole every single guy that i have liked from me. I will even tell her i like that guy alot, and she sweep him off his feet and go and ';hook up';. Anyways how do i tell her nicely that she is the biggest flirt in the entire world (but because i have already done that) how do i tell her it has to stop that it is not okay, cause she thinks it is. oh and should i tell ben?My best friend; total flirt?
Explain it exactly as you did on here to Caitlin. Sometimes stating the whole lot in one go is enough to get people to realise what they're doing. I'd put quite a lot of emphasis on her sitting on that guy's lap though, your best guy friend doesn't deserve that. I'm not sure if you should tell him about her and that guy though, because if it ends between them over that and then you tell him that you have a huge crush on him he might think that it wasn't true, or that you did it so that you could be with him instead, or something.
I'd tell him how you feel about him if I were you, but not about Caitlin and that guy... A little while before you say everything to Caitlin as well so that it doesn't seem like everythings happening too quickly for him if she takes unplanned action (freeing him for you) :)
Not the best wording ever :/
Good luck :)My best friend; total flirt?
Don't tell Ben. He has to be blind if he doesn't realize what she is like. That's his problem. And why are you friends with this idiot girl who is screaming for attention every second ?? go find a new friend !! and dump her.
Your call.
I'd tell him.
Not a nice best friend if she steals all your boyfriends.
she was on his lap talking to him outside the school, i swear they were about to make out when i walked over they jumped up. To add even more to that caitlin has stole every single guy that i have liked from me. I will even tell her i like that guy alot, and she sweep him off his feet and go and ';hook up';. Anyways how do i tell her nicely that she is the biggest flirt in the entire world (but because i have already done that) how do i tell her it has to stop that it is not okay, cause she thinks it is. oh and should i tell ben?My best friend; total flirt?
Explain it exactly as you did on here to Caitlin. Sometimes stating the whole lot in one go is enough to get people to realise what they're doing. I'd put quite a lot of emphasis on her sitting on that guy's lap though, your best guy friend doesn't deserve that. I'm not sure if you should tell him about her and that guy though, because if it ends between them over that and then you tell him that you have a huge crush on him he might think that it wasn't true, or that you did it so that you could be with him instead, or something.
I'd tell him how you feel about him if I were you, but not about Caitlin and that guy... A little while before you say everything to Caitlin as well so that it doesn't seem like everythings happening too quickly for him if she takes unplanned action (freeing him for you) :)
Not the best wording ever :/
Good luck :)My best friend; total flirt?
Don't tell Ben. He has to be blind if he doesn't realize what she is like. That's his problem. And why are you friends with this idiot girl who is screaming for attention every second ?? go find a new friend !! and dump her.
Your call.
I'd tell him.
Not a nice best friend if she steals all your boyfriends.
Is my friend flirting with my boyfriend? PLEASE help!!?
My bf and I are having a great relationship, so it's not like I'm scared that she will take him away...but it sincerely annoys the HECK out of me....
- She'll call me when I'm hanging out with him, and when I say I have to go, she says, ';I FEEL SO LEFT OUT!'; (was she supposed to be included in the first place? no....)
- She constantly messages him to say hi, and tells me she wants to see him in person some time
- She suspiciously tells me that she doesn't think he's the right guy for me, when he's done nothing wrong...
- She always talks to me about him (I call her, and the first thing she asks is, ';So how were you and him today?';
Am I just being paranoid? If not, should I tell her about my concerns....? THX, serious answers only pleaseIs my friend flirting with my boyfriend? PLEASE help!!?
She wants your man and that isn't right. I don't think she's much of a friend and she shouldn't try to put you down because she's jealous of youIs my friend flirting with my boyfriend? PLEASE help!!?
at least she is calling you and not your bf
Well your being paranoid for a good reason that sounds pretty bad i would just ask her straight up have you ever liked him or something like that just to see what she says and if she does like him then she is a bad friend so.....you should get rid of her unless shes your bestfriend then just talk it out
well sorta yes because i use to flirt with my bffs bf and i did these things sometimes except for telling her hes not right for her and the i feel so left out! check and see if he flirts back? maybe they might like each other but sometimes people can be flirty and not even like the person my friends like tht ';really flirty'; so yea and do they both talk alot?does she constantly talk about him every second?does he talk about her?
ask her, if she sayd yes then tell her she needs to back up, way up....!
best of luck!
shes jealous
- She'll call me when I'm hanging out with him, and when I say I have to go, she says, ';I FEEL SO LEFT OUT!'; (was she supposed to be included in the first place? no....)
- She constantly messages him to say hi, and tells me she wants to see him in person some time
- She suspiciously tells me that she doesn't think he's the right guy for me, when he's done nothing wrong...
- She always talks to me about him (I call her, and the first thing she asks is, ';So how were you and him today?';
Am I just being paranoid? If not, should I tell her about my concerns....? THX, serious answers only pleaseIs my friend flirting with my boyfriend? PLEASE help!!?
She wants your man and that isn't right. I don't think she's much of a friend and she shouldn't try to put you down because she's jealous of youIs my friend flirting with my boyfriend? PLEASE help!!?
at least she is calling you and not your bf
Well your being paranoid for a good reason that sounds pretty bad i would just ask her straight up have you ever liked him or something like that just to see what she says and if she does like him then she is a bad friend so.....you should get rid of her unless shes your bestfriend then just talk it out
well sorta yes because i use to flirt with my bffs bf and i did these things sometimes except for telling her hes not right for her and the i feel so left out! check and see if he flirts back? maybe they might like each other but sometimes people can be flirty and not even like the person my friends like tht ';really flirty'; so yea and do they both talk alot?does she constantly talk about him every second?does he talk about her?
ask her, if she sayd yes then tell her she needs to back up, way up....!
best of luck!
shes jealous
How do i tell my friends he's mine?
Every time that my friends and my boyfriend are in the same room my friends flirt like crazy with him, even my gay friend makenzie(yes he's a dude). One girl Izzy said that she was going to take him away frome me and the first time i heard this i thought she was kidding but then she said she was dead serious. How do i tell he to back off.How do i tell my friends he's mine?
I would think they'd be your friends for a reason. I'd be straightforward. Even joking is disrespectful and if they are your friends they should respect your opinion. (They should respect it without having to be told, but they may not think they're doing anything wrong)How do i tell my friends he's mine?
I would say you should start distrusting in their friendship towards you.
I would think they'd be your friends for a reason. I'd be straightforward. Even joking is disrespectful and if they are your friends they should respect your opinion. (They should respect it without having to be told, but they may not think they're doing anything wrong)How do i tell my friends he's mine?
I would say you should start distrusting in their friendship towards you.
I think my friend flirts with any guy that might like me? B**** ?
At school theres a guy we hang round with, Im in an older year than them both and shes known him longer...
Every time I joke around by saying Oh So-and-so is hot I'd tap that Shed instantly reply U cant so-n-so is mine... shes says it in a joking way but she says it so much it's hardly a joke anymore.
Anyways, back to this guy...
Ive recently notice his being really nice to me, I mean his a nice guy but he never bags me out like he does to the other girls... e.g. Fat jokes...
I think shes picked this up too. Now shes flirting with him like she wants him!
Shes always the one with the boyfriend, she's never single for long.
Plus she already has two guys waiting, like, all she has to say is jump and theyll say how high?! - Do you know that saying?
What can I do? I mean even if this guy does like me I don't want to go out with him, his more like a brother to me... well not a brother I hate my brother. but you know what I mean....
It's like she must shut me down bout every guy I likeI think my friend flirts with any guy that might like me? B**** ?
Honey, she's not your friend.
I've heard about lots of situations like this, and I've witnessed just as many. There are many reasons for why your ';friend'; could be doing this to you. She may be jealous or insecure. Or she may simply like being the one who has everything, while you tag along behind her. Whatever her motives, they don't sound good.
I would try talking to her. If the situation doesn't improve, I'd advise you to drop her. As for the guy-keep up the friendship.
Every time I joke around by saying Oh So-and-so is hot I'd tap that Shed instantly reply U cant so-n-so is mine... shes says it in a joking way but she says it so much it's hardly a joke anymore.
Anyways, back to this guy...
Ive recently notice his being really nice to me, I mean his a nice guy but he never bags me out like he does to the other girls... e.g. Fat jokes...
I think shes picked this up too. Now shes flirting with him like she wants him!
Shes always the one with the boyfriend, she's never single for long.
Plus she already has two guys waiting, like, all she has to say is jump and theyll say how high?! - Do you know that saying?
What can I do? I mean even if this guy does like me I don't want to go out with him, his more like a brother to me... well not a brother I hate my brother. but you know what I mean....
It's like she must shut me down bout every guy I likeI think my friend flirts with any guy that might like me? B**** ?
Honey, she's not your friend.
I've heard about lots of situations like this, and I've witnessed just as many. There are many reasons for why your ';friend'; could be doing this to you. She may be jealous or insecure. Or she may simply like being the one who has everything, while you tag along behind her. Whatever her motives, they don't sound good.
I would try talking to her. If the situation doesn't improve, I'd advise you to drop her. As for the guy-keep up the friendship.
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